There is no real secret to a perfect marriage. Marriage could give you a glimpse of heaven in one side or as much of hell at the others side. There is a famous wisdom saying where the perfect marriage can only be found between a deaf and a blind couple, because the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of his wife, while the blind wife cannot see the shortcomings of her husband.

Certainly, there are also those couples who are fortunate enough to be soul mates. Being truthfully and totally in love with each other is more than what most people could ask for in a relationship. But even love is not enough to prolong a relationship. There are other factors that come into play.

Why then you still want to get married? Is it to have a family? Is it to have someone to grow old with? Is it for wealth and security? All of these counts, but there