What do you look for from St. Valentine's Day? Romance, sex, the chance of marriage? Here are seven ways to help you attract your woman and turn her on.

1. Flowers rarely fail. Red roses symbolise passion and romance and are always welcome unless, unusually, she hates them! Add a second bunch of your lady's favourite flowers will tip the balance as it shows you notice her likes and dislikes.
2. If you are on close terms or if you would like to be - buy her a sex toy, some sexy lingerie, or if she likes role play, a sexy fantasy outfit.
3. Promise a weekend break in the romantic cities of Amsterdam, New York or Paris. If the budget is tight seaside resorts such as Brighton (in the UK) can be just as much fun.
4. Say you would like to do something she has always desired but you have shied away from, perhaps visiting somewhere, going to a show or maybe something more intimate ...
5. Do your very best to be happy on the day - happiness is infectious and will make the day fun and good to look back on.
6. Make sure you compliment her - not only on her appearance but also her manner or perhaps a particularly good meal she has made an effort to cook for you. These things will boost her ego and give her confidence.
7. Suggest a massage evening together. If you are not sure how, buy a good book on giving a massage. Buy some good quality aromatic massage oil. Set up the room with candles and sensuous music. Take lots of time over the massage and take as far you both want it to go!

These seven ideas are not, of course, the only ones to make for a fabulous day. Use them, adapt them and use your own imagination to think up some more and you will be even more successful.

Abbie Acworth has had a long term interest in sex and sexuality and writes articles for sites maintained by http://www.newberry-it-ltd.co.uk/page1.html