Upon reflecting, the summation of life is often a culmination of special memories. Yes, I realize that it is far more including ones that we would as soon forget. A return visit after decades to a childhood vacation spot allowed me to relive some joyous moments. Such opportunities seldom come along, and when they do, they are often a major disappointment. But my return to Lakeside, Ohio lived up to the memories. I grew up in a family filled with love, a wondrous gift that I wish every child had. A better childhood could not have been had.

Despite that knowledge, I often looked upon friends with envy when they spoke of their travels. Since my father owned a business, we seldom were able to take traditional vacations. Thus, when Mom and Dad announced that we would vacation along Lake Erie, my three sisters and I were amazed and excited. Despite the fact that the lake was only 90 miles away, that did not matter. I had only heard of this mystical body of water in school and from friends. Besides, we were even allowed to bring along one friend. I credit that vacation as a major epiphany within my life.

The seeds of curiosity and adventure were sown on that visit to this church resort upon the lake. Recently, when I returned overnight with two friends and stayed in a small cottage in the tranquil environment of this Methodist resort, I again returned and savored those memories of youth. I again saw twelve year old Bobbie, one of my first fantasy girls, giggling with her friend; my deceased father taking my reluctant hand up the convocation steps; David, the now millionaire stockbroker, was again my best friend; and the Lake Erie islands a few miles offshore that wetted my adventurous appetite, still beckoned.

I hope each of you have your own Lakeside memories that you can recall in times of need to bring that secret smile to your face.

Bob Casey is a poet, writer, educator, speaker, and presenter. He has cycled, hiked, sailed, and traveled to many far off destinations. He also spent a year on a teaching Fulbright in New Zealand. His many interests, include yoga, Tai Chi, skiing, cycling, photography, and wine collecting.