You opened your mail box and out fell a beautiful, cream colored envelope. Long before you open it, you know that one of your friends is getting married. You are so happy for her! You immediately contact the number indicated on the RSVP and confirm that you are definitely attending her wedding. Being women, the next question is, "What shall I wear to her wedding?"

Now ladies, everyone wants to look their best at a major event, such as this. If you're single and open to the dating public, you know that you are on display. Weddings are a perfect opportunity to find romance (just don't start assuming the first guy you meet at the wedding is walking down the aisle with you).

It is a courtesy to let the bride have all the glory on her wedding day, so please don't steal her thunder. Dress to look good without piling on the rocks or being too provocative. The hunting ground may be in the open but you don't want to scare off the pray... I mean the other guests.

You may want to check the invitation before going out and buying a dress for the wedding so that you don't go overdressed or look out of place. For example, if the time indicated is for 7pm at the Ballroom of the Ritz, then you definitely need to wear a gown. The very name of the place speaks of elegance and black ties. It will definitely be a night to feel like a star.

If you're not sure of what color to wear, check the invitation. Usually, the card is in the colors of the theme or may have ribbons to indicate it. If you can't tell from the card, ask when you call the bride. It will make it easier for you to blend in. Generally though, as long as you don't wear black or overexpose too much skin, you'll do fine.