Improve Self Confidence Levels By Learning To Be Care Free
Many people in life feel that they have a lack of confidence or
that they have a low self esteem. In this article, I give free
tips on how to imporove your self-confidence and how to increase
your self-esteem. I myself have managed to change my whole life
by using the information below which I am going to share with
you. I hope it also proves beneficial for you.
I am Stephen Hill from Birmingham in England. I was always
somebody who had many confidence issues as I grew up, from a
child, through to adulthood. I would feel very sorry for myself
and would often be down and depressed. The issues that I had in
my life were:
A bald patch the size of a ten pence piece on my head
A problem with my speech known as a stutter
A weight problem, I was quite fat for my height
I am quite short for a male at five-foot-four
Certain people would take the mickey out of me, and their
comments would hurt. I would always make sure they did not see
my anger but inside I was crying.
These people were making my life a misery and by the age of
twenty-two I had had enough. I decided I needed a big change in
attitude and started to read books about life and about positive
thinking etc.
These were the things I had to take on board:
It is not important what other people think of you, it is what
you think that counts
You need to start to like yourself
There are various things about your person, you do not like but
which you can not change. You therefore have to start accepting
these things and realising that maybe there are other people in
life who are more unfortunate than you.
You need to have respect for yourself
Do not accept second best in life
Be happy
Learn to relax
Treat yourself to some pleasures. Like a regular massage or
reflexology
The above tips helped me to become more positive and happier in
life.