Potty Training -Not For The Faint Of Heart
If you've determined that your child is ready for potty
training, it's time to take the plunge. It's not easy, but don't
despair, your child will master potty training some time before
kindergarten. It's important to make sure you're ready, too,
because potty training requires a lot of commitment on the part
of the Mom.
First, you need to make potty training a project. If your child
is really ready, and you make the commitment to focus on it,
many children can be trained in about a week. But, you've got to
stay on top of it to make it go quickly. Here are some tips to
help you out.
Use the timer Tell your child that when the bell rings, it's
time to race to the potty. Then set the timer for 20 minutes.
When the timer goes off, race to the potty with the child and
see if she can go. If not, set the timer for another 20 minutes
and try again. As you determine the right interval, you can wait
longer between alarms, but 20 minute intervals is a good place
to start. Not only does this make a game for you and your
toddler, it ensures that you won't forget to ask if she needs to
potty. Success breeds success here. If she can go for a long
time without wetting her diaper, it will encourage her to
remember. But, at first, you've got to remember.
Offer rewards Offer some sort of reward every time your child
goes in the potty. Double it if she tells you she needs to go
and then actually goes. Every success should be wildly
celebrated. We do our happy dance, sing our song and get
stickers, each and every time.
Let the little one go naked This tactic works best for those
without carpet. Your child will really get the picture about how
potty training works if he has an accident while wearing nothing
on his bottom. It can be messy, but you'll probably find that it
really speeds up the process. It seems to work especially well
with girls, as they really don't like the feeling of wetness.
The most important aspect of potty training is diligence. There
are lots of tools that can help you, like books and dolls with
their own potty. But the number one factor in succeeding quickly
is simply making potty training a priority, so get prepared.
Plan ahead of time to make this week "potty training week" and
then stick to the plan. Stay home as much as possible to make
training easier. Before you know it, you'll be kissing those
diapers goodbye!