Tips On Planning A Surprise Baby Shower
There is nothing like seeing a surprised look on the mom-to-be!
Surprise baby showers can involve a little extra work, a lot
more secrecy, but they can also be a lot fun!
If your party goes as planned it will offer an unexpected and
delightful surprise for your expectant mom. But, before you
start planning consider the following:
Has the mom-to-be registered for baby gifts? If she
hasn't it will make gift purchasing much more difficult. You may
need to list the help of her mother, sister or close friend to
find out what she is in needs for the baby.
Is your expectant mom the type of person who enjoys
surprises? If she isn't you should stay away from this type
of baby shower. You want this day to be special and enjoyable
for your guest of honor.
Will it be difficult to enlist family and friends in keeping
the secrecy? Let's be honest, some people are better then
others at keeping secrets. If you know someone close to her
tends to let secrets slip, it might not be worth the stress of
trying. Some family members and guests may not support the idea
of a surprise shower either.
Will arranging a cover story to ensure the mom-to-be will
arrive on her special day be difficult? You would hate to go
through all the trouble of planning a secret celebration only
for the expectant mom to catch on to what is happening hours
before the shower.
The job of planning the perfect surprise baby shower requires
more than one person. You will need to enlist the help of those
closest to your mom-to-be. Talk with her partner, mother,
sisters and best friends. They will be able to help determine a
good day and time for the surprise baby shower. As well as help
get her to the shower on time, dressed appropriately, and with
the least amount of suspicion.
The location of your celebration plays an important role when
planning a surprise baby shower. Try to hold the party at a
place the expectant mom normally visits and feels comfortable
going to on a regular basis. A close family or friend's home
would be ideal. It will make creating a cover story for dropping
by on the day of the party less suspicious. Remember to ask your
shower guests to arrive early and park away from the house to
ensure your guest of honor isn't tipped off at the last minute.
The most often asked question is: "How do we get our expectant
mom to the shower without raising suspicion?"
Here are a few suggestions:
Ask Her Partner To Participate In The Surprise: Her
partner could suggest a romantic evening out for the two of them
before the new baby arrives. To lessen her suspicion, consider
holding the shower at a public place, like a restaurant.
Schedule A Non-Conventional Shower Day or Time: Catch
your expectant mom off guard by planning the shower at a
non-conventional time. Such as in the morning or right after
lunch.
Send a Decoy to Keep Your Expectant Mom Busy: Have a
close friend or family member take her to lunch on that day.
While they are enjoying their meal, you can be welcoming the
shower guests.
Keep in mind that you may want your expectant mom to know
someone will be hosting a shower in her honor. You can keep her
in the dark on the date, time and location. This way she won't
become upset thinking everyone forgot to throw her a baby
shower.