Deeper Down Deeper in Debt - Funerals
The last goodbye at a funeral leaves you reminiscing about the
good times, also leaving a trail of fond memories of the dearly
departed. But after a funeral you find that it can also leave a
huge debt hanging over your head.
The cost to bury a loved one can run into the thousands for a
decent burial? What is a decent burial? What is the difference
between decent and not so decent? The mind boggles.
For that extra few bob does the coffin of the decent funeral
have a more highly polished finish. Does the deceased have more
words said at the service? Well let me tell you a little secret.
Blurred vision/bloodshot eyes hamper the sight of the
congregation, with all the crying it is hard to focus on any
casket.
Words spoken at the mass are rarely heard. Too many other
thoughts overpower the emotional sentiments, and one is worry on
how the bill is going to be paid. This is not the day for
extravagance; imagine going to the theatre to watch a show but
the curtains never open, so what is the point for all that
expense.
Decent and the not so decent goodbye Mourners are there to share
in your sorrow not to pass judgment on how many brass handles
surround the coffin or what hymns are sung.
With not knowing the mechanics behind a funeral, many families
find themselves in a financial situation where they are faced
with the heartache of trying to make ends meet.
In their time of grief, the best of everything is chosen for
their dearly departed which comes at a price that seems
affordable at the time, till reality sets in where the departed
was the breadwinner.
Life insurance is a necessity while in the land of the living;
it can help lighten the load for those left behind after a
bereavement
Unfortunately we have all experienced a loss at some time in our
lives but should you be unfortunate enough at this present time
be going through the experience of losing someone you love, why
not call a friend or member of the family to act on your behalf
in arranging the funeral? This will be less of a burden for you
to cope with, while you adapt yourself in coming to terms with
the death
Consider cutting funeral costs by Less brass/save cash Have the
service shortened. Funeral cars settle for 1, the hearse. A
family get together at the house, no big wake. A small posy says
farewell just the same as any wreath. It is how you say goodbye
that matters, silent thoughts and memories can give the dearly
departed the best send off ever.
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