5 Tips For Talking To Your Children About What They See In The
News
5 Tips For Talking To Your Children About What They See In The
News
Mommy (Daddy), Why do those people want to hurt everyone?
Last week, the world was shaken by another terrorist attack. Hot
on the heels of the Live 8 benefits and in the middle of the G8
Summit, bombs exploded in London. Adults around the globe were
glued to CNN and spent time discussing their feelings about the
event around the water cooler at work, with their partners at
home or in online discussion groups and e-mails. Collectively,
we reached out and were comforted and reassured by the words of
Prime Minister Tony Blair and other world leaders.
Many adults, however, do not realize how many kids are exposed
to the same news. Older children may read the newspaper or watch
the news on TV. Others may be exposed to "breaking news" during
an interruption in their favorite cartoon t.v. program and still
others can easily stumble across the information online via MSN,
Yahoo, Google or any of the other online portals. While adults
were declaring their solidarity in the War On Terror last week,
many children's anxieties and fears were being overlooked.
In our efforts to protect our children and preserve the
innocence of childhood as long as possible, we attempt to shield
them from the atrocities that occur in today's turbulent times.
When events such as the bombs in London, the events at the
elementary school in Belsan, Russia in September, 2004 and the
September 11th attacks on the World Trade Center occur, our
natural instinct is to not discuss the events of the day with
our children. Yet, as news of terrorist attacks or other
tragedies surround them, your children may be feeling
frightened, anxious, sad and confused.
As a parent, only you can decide what news is appropriate for
your children but do not assume that your child does not have an
awareness of the tragic events that have a global impact. It