Tracing Family Histories
One of the most fascinating, and most rewarding pastimes you can
engage in is tracing family histories. By delving into the past
of your family and the families that have joined together to
form that family, you can learn about yourself, your parents,
your ancestors, and the many people who have been born, wedded,
had children, and eventually ended up creating that unique
entity known as you. As well, you can learn much about what
those people did and the places from which they came.
Tracing family histories can often be a difficult task. However,
the best place to start is by tracing genealogy. Without names
to go on, any family history is almost impossible to create.
Thus, a full family tree should be formed and formatted in order
to figure out just who these people were, when they lived, and
where they lived.
Once you have figured out names, the real digging begins. You
need to find as much information about these people as possible.
Anything in the public record is usually the best place to
start. Legal papers can be a wealth of information about the
people from whom you are descended. Such items as deeds, real
estate papers, and loan papers can tell you a great deal about
the names on your family tree. If they bought land, they must
have worked it. If they applied for loans, they usually gave a
purpose for the loan. These are the meat of any family history.
With a few little details, you can start filling in a whole lot
of blanks.
As well, old letters are very useful for tracing family
histories. Though letter writing is something of a lost art
today, people would often keep letters they received, especially
love letters. These can provide fascinating glimpses into the
people who have gone on before you, as they will often not only
speak of their love, but they can also provide interesting
asides about where they were and what they were doing. The
addresses will tell you where those letters went. Return
addresses will tell you where they came from. They often told
each other where they were and what they were doing at the time.
These are not just pieces of paper, they are windows into the
souls of your ancestors.
Family Bibles are akin to the Holy Grail for those tracing
family histories. As these were often large, decorative, sacred
books, they were almost never discarded. Thus, people often used
them to store important documents. It was like a large safe.
Simply put those loan papers at Numbers 12, and they were safe.
As well, people often listed ancestry and descendents in these
books. The front page often contains a family tree that can be
used to find relations that are not in one's family tree. And as
the Bible was passed down from generation to generation, it was
filled out that much more, creating a complete history of the
family.
However, the most important resource for tracing family
histories should not be overlooked. That resource is, of course,
family members. Surviving relations are a wealth of information.
They want to talk about what they did, where they went, how they
felt about things, and what was going on at the time. They can
call up stories that they have not had the chance to tell, and
they will sometimes remember things they forgot they knew as
they tell their stories. Do not forget to ask your family
members about the family. They will be more than happy to help.
Tracing family histories can provide wonderful scenes,
compelling dramas, and stories that are too strange to be
untrue. When you compile the history of your family, remember
that you are learning about people. People who were just as full
of life and vitality as you are. So feel free to tell their
stories and don't forget to enjoy the fact that you are letting
your ancestors live their lives all over again.