WRITING YOUR LIFE STORY - Some Common Obstacles and How to
Overcome Them
"When the storyteller tells the truth, she reminds us that human
beings are more alike than unalike... A story is what it's like
to be a human being - to be knocked down and to miraculously
arise. Each one of us has arisen, awakened."
- Maya Angelou
Many people who consult with me regarding their family histories
are also adamant that they want to do the work themselves. I
encourage that. Who knows your personal stories better than you
do? Producing life story legacies through books or videos is a
priceless gift that brings families together and enhances lives
for generations to come. Let 2005 be the year that you start to
weave the tapestry of your family's life in words and
photographs!
Don't get bogged down with difficulties that prevent you from
moving forward with your stories. Here are three of the most
common life story writing challenges and some easy solutions for
them:
"I can't seem to keep writing."
Consult a personal historian for a list of story-starters or a
coaching session, so that you can get excited about your project
all over again. Find a writing group to join or start one of
your own that is devoted to life story writing and willing to
meet at least every two weeks. Read some good books on the
subject - "Writing The Memoir" by Judith Barrington is
particularly helpful and includes a section on forming a group.
Join an ongoing e-course to keep you motivated - Recollections
offers one or you can research others on the Internet.
"I can't locate all the facts - birth dates, immigrant ship
landings, military regiments, etc."
If you need help with research, Information Desk Librarians at
the local libraries are a great help! A personal historian can
also point you in the right direction. Often, all it takes is a
visit to the right website or the location of the right
genealogy book or magazine.
"I've got everything written down, but I'm not sure it makes
sense."
This is where a good writer/editor, one who specializes in
memoir and personal history, can come in. An editor can tidy up
your work in a practical manner, assist with sentence structure
and flow and otherwise make your words sing! The difference
between a jumble of dry facts and a personal history is as near
as your telephone. If you want to do your own editing but aren't
sure how to go about it, an editorial consultation will help
point you in the right direction.
Are you feeling stuck in some way that hasn't been covered here?
Please don't be discouraged! There are many resources available
to help you capture your family memories and those of your
relatives - in print, on audio or video. I sincerely hope this
is your year to begin such an important project!
Copyright (C) 2004 Carol M. Upton