What Parents Should Do For Children To Do Their Best After
Divorce?
Why do some children still do best after divorce and separation?
Is there divorce parenting approaches that really work? Read and
learn the divorce parenting approaches that really work.
Going through the process of divorce is a challenging life
transition for both parents and children. During their parents'
divorce, children often feel a wide variety of conflicting
emotions. It is very important for parents to provide their
children with understanding and support. Overall, the children
who do best after divorce and separation are those whose parents
dominantly employ 5 divorce parenting approaches. They:
1. Listen to children and nurture an independent and empathic
relationship with each of them. 2. Fully support the children's
relationships with the other parent making them feel loved and
wanted in both homes. 3. Develop positive strategies for setting
limits and imposing appropriate discipline. 4. Continue to hold
reasonably high expectations for the children, regardless of
trying circumstances. 5. Shield the children from their parental
disagreements and resentments.
Each of the above is presented here below in great detail.
1. Listen to children and nurture an independent and empathic
relationship with each of them.
To better help our children we must first understand them. To be
able to understand them completely, we need to listen and create
an environment favorable for them to speak out. To make things
happen, you need to: