All Minds think Alike
Some people believe that mental illnesses are all the same. If
you are diagnosed with a mental illness then not to worry
because everyone else diagnosed is just like you. This is far
removed from reality and the truth. What is so ironic is the
same people that are saying this (is often ill them self) will
often say something to the affect when a murder takes place. 'He
is a psychopathic or sociopath. Yet the neighbor down the road
who visits every day has a mental illness and when this person
visits, or the therapist is overwrought.
You do not have a mental illness you have problems like the rest
of us. This is easier to accept than believing that a person has
a mental illness. This is nuts, since it is only contributing to
the problem. The problem with the world is all the people
seeking help are doing their job and the people that are making
excuses or in denial of mental health, illness existence is in
serious need of help.
For example if Johnny visits a counselor knowing that something
is not right, he is asking for help. On the other hand if that
person sitting at the table telling the neighbor nothing is
wrong, and claims that seeing a counselor is only spending
money, then guess who is in real need of help. The person that
does not go to a counselor or ask someone in the world for help
is the person that mentally ill more so than the common mental
ill. Mental is nothing to play around with, and since we are all
different it can be complicated to determine who is ill. I have
watched as countless of patients went to mental health experts
and watched them continue to suffer although they worked hard
with the counselor to find a resolve.
The problem is that mental healths experts are more concerned
about money than the patients are most time, and believe they
know it all and the patient knows nothing most all the time.
Many therapists are in this field of expertise and if you did a
background check on the professional, you are probably going to
see this person is a mental health potential or skip out as
well. It does not take a genius to understand mental health, but
it takes many idiots to tangle the webs of darkness. In most
instances, mentally ill patients are brilliant individuals that
have difficulty managing their lives due to frequent
interruptions.
Most all the patients that go to mental health experts can talk
about their problems freely searching for answers to survive.
The problem is (between the lines of communication) lies a
fountain of information that can help both the patient and the
counselor, but too many times the counselors are entangled in
their own webs, they miss out on the benefits of helping another
person out. Personally, I spent 25 years in counselor with no
results up until the last three years and then I was working
harder than the counselor to resolve my own problems was.
She was doing a portion of her job, but my strategies were
succeeding hers, and I left her behind. Now, if you see what I
am saying then you will know that anyone with a mental illness
has more of an answer than over half of the professionals in the
world. If you have, experience and they have a piece of paper
without experience, who knows more? I often have more compassion
for mentally ill patients, than I have for the so-called normal
and professionals of the world.
I have watched many suffering after begging practically for
help, and very little result came from it all. I watched as many
counselors blamed the patient for the failure, but in all
truths, they had a responsibility in this as well. Most
counselors are in denial which is a mental health issue, and
many people in many professions are in denial, and this my
friend is a major cause for mental health issues around the
world. Ill minds think alike because someone is influenced while
the other source is influencing