Avoidant Disorders in Mental Health
Yes, there is a diagnosis titled Avoidant Personality Disorder.
This type of personality will often avoid public, since they
fear that the people will reject them, disappoint them,
humiliate them, or view them as a complete failure. They often
are reluctant to ask for help, ask questions, or speak in
public. They also work below their abilities since promotions
are often frightening for them.
Most times, they suffer inferiority complexes, and suffer
severe episodes of loneliness, depression, anxiety attacks, and
so forth. Schizoid personality types are similar, in the sense,
they will avoid public, and however avoidant personality types
do not have a need to socialize. We are discussing this disorder
simply because I have to question the idea of this disorder in
the first place.
After studying an individual with multiple personality disorder
(MPD), and noticing that the individual displayed avoidant
behaviors in certain areas of the persons personality, I noticed
that the person was not frightened of social, rather abused and
neglect by the father and by the system. The person was raised
by a paranoid schizophrenia that taught her or punished her when
she would go in the public, or else visit another home. When the
person was able to befriend others the father, moving to another
area, instantly swept her away.
The young woman was different in the sense she had multiple
personalities, so it was easier to fix the problem by
integrating the personality that suffered the symptoms of
avoidant. After Integration I noticed a tremendous change, in
that the person enjoyed being around people to a degree.
However, this woman was intelligent and wise to the system that
she set boundaries in social engagements. This is only one
individual with over 70 personalities, so it made me wonder if
avoidant personality disorder was proper in some cases.
I have to reason that people with avoidant personality types may
have a foundation that is not explored to the degree that it
should be explored. The system alone and how others treat others
sometimes is enough to make anyone want to avoid public. It is
important to examine all aspects of the symptoms before coming
to the conclusion that the person has avoidant personality
disorder. Most all (rather all) individuals with a mental
disorder or illness has an underlying root which in all cases is
FEAR.
Once an expert works through those fears dealing with one at a
time moving onto the next fear, then mental illnesses is only a
state of mind. It is possible to treat mentally ill, disorders
with therapy alone, and is more effective if the techniques used
are appropriate to the diagnose and worked properly. Not
everyone with a mental illness needs medications. Paranoid
Schizophrenics, Bipolar, and a few other disorders or mental
illnesses in my experience needed medication. Paranoid
Schizophrenias definitely should be medicated. If you do not
medicate a Paranoid Schizophrenic, you are only asking for
trouble.
These types will kill out of their own state of mind, simply
because they believe someone is trying to hurt them, when in
reality they are not. Not all schizophrenics kill, but there are
known cases, including the Oklahoma Bomber that has killed.
Avoidant personality disorders are easy to undo without
medications, simply because the root of their symptoms is fear.
We can start therapeutic treatment by working with the deepest
fear the person displays. Talk therapy, role-play, and a few
other therapeutic strategies could do wonders for people with
avoidant personality disorders. It is important to listen to
these types, since the problem lies beneath the voices that
speak.
When a person is telling you that he or she has a problem with
socialization, we know that underneath those words is a fear
that was cultivated by an incident/accident at childhood. We
know that this person had endured some underdevelopment and
lacks education and knowledge of the so-called normal ways. This
person if taught or relearned the rules and regulations of
society can in time socialize without problems. If we work
through the problems without burying them with medications, we
are most likely going to have fewer problems.