Child who has a stammer
When a child starts to develop a stammer, it comes as a shock to
everyone involved. It can be a very stressful time for both the
parents and for the child.
I myself developed a stammer at the age of four or five. My
mother had left work to look after me when I was born and I
started to talk as normal. Everything was fine until I started
school. My mother - who now had more time on her hands, decided
to re-start work and I would now be going to a friend of the
families after school. This friend was called Jean and she had a
son my age called Graham. On the first day I spent at her house
everything was going well until Jean called us in for our
evening meal. Meal times at my own house were a very relaxed
affair, we were able to eat our food wherever we wanted to in
the house.
At Jean's house they ate in a dining room around a dining table.
There were a lot of people around the table who I did not know
very well and eating in front of them all, made me feel quite
uncomfortable. During the meal people were asking me various
questions and for whatever reason, I found it difficult to
answer and started to stammer. This was the first day of my life
as a person who has a stammer.
My parents a few months later took me to speech therapy, the
speech therapist advised them that most children will grow out
of their stammer. I continued unfortunately to stutter until I
was twenty two. At this stage I decided I had had enough and
that it was time to overcome the stammer.
Stephen Hill