Hobby Psychology
Happiness is the culmination of small amounts of success. You
will inevitably not be successful at everything you try to do.
Also, if you measure your success by extreme standards, such as
accomplishing some great and important task then you will likely
often be too hard on yourself and feel like a failure, despite
all of your other small successes. It is better to focus on the
small successes and make them happen as often as you can.
Mastering a new hobby can be a small success that you can
accomplish, that you can make happen, and that you have control
over. Moreover, it is something you choose to do. You can
succeed at the things that YOU want to.
If you or someone you know is having trouble getting excited
about life or has little ambition, perhaps it is time to have a
little success or help them find a little success. Success can
be inspiring. Success can build your confidence. As you learn a
new hobby, your confidence will rise. You will become more
ambitious and happy. You will become excited about other things
that before you were not excited about.
A hobby can just be something else for you to do. One of my
favorite quotes is "Variety is the spice of life." A hobby is
something you can spice up your life with. It can be very
helpful to your mental health as you fill your life with the
things that you enjoy and love. It can also give you a sense of
control as YOU pick your hobbies. YOU find the things that YOU
like. You can pursue your own interests.
As you experiment with different hobbies you can find yourself.
You can find out what you are really like, what really makes you
happy. Perhaps physical exercise will make you happier, in which
case you should find a hobby that requires some physical
exertion like mountain biking, running, lifting weights,
dancing, swimming, or playing sports. Maybe you would enjoy a
hobby where you can interact with other people; most of the
hobbies already mentioned could also be done with others. You
could also find more laid back hobbies such as outdoor yard
games, barbecuing, camping, or boating. Whatever your interests
are, or what you think they might be you can find a related
hobby and pursue it. There are also hobbies for people who
like to spend time alone such as crocheting, scrapbooking, arts
and crafts. Some people like to tinker with things or are
interested in technology, in which case, they might like model
airplanes or radio control airplanes. Many people have a hobby
of communicating with ham radios. There are as many hobbies as
there are ideas.
By definition, a hobby
is a leisure or recreational activity that someone pursues
outside of their regular career. It is something that adds
quality to life and variety to your nine-to-five job. It is
something you can enjoy, something you can look forward to doing
at the end of the day or the end of the week. It is something
that you can spend time doing with family or friends. It is
something that can provide purpose and a reason for you to be
happy. Hobbies can help to find yourself and find where your
real interests lay.
So, find a new hobby today. Find a hobby at the online hobby store that
makes you think, that challenges you to be more intelligent, to
be a better person and that gives you something to look forward
to. You will be surprised what a difference it makes in your
life.