Is your outside as disorganized as your inside?
I've been cleaning up my garden a bit, now that it's autumn and
winter will soon be upon us. That's made me think about the
constant work involved in maintaining a house, keeping it clean,
in good repair, uncluttered. UNCLUTTERED!
I know very few people who don't complain about the clutter in
their lives. Most people see it as a "labor of Sisyphus," where
you make a supreme effort to get your stuff organized, only to
be confronted with the same problem again and again. A few
people go to the other extreme - houses so clean and neat
(sterile?) that you could probably serve dinner off the floor
with no ill effects.
Why are we confronted with clutter and too much stuff? There are
lots of logical reasons: the low price of consumer goods enables
us to buy many more things; the inability to get things repaired
leaves us with fairly new objects that we're reluctant to throw
away; advertising encourages us to buy more and more; some homes
lack adequate storage; inherited family heirlooms or special
collections need their space; some people stockpile for
emergencies or buy in quantity at box stores.
Those reasons all sounded really good, but they're missing the
point. Clutter is stagnant energy that causes tiredness and
lethargy. It doesn't leave room for new things to come into your
life and you feel bogged down. It can keep you feeling unfocused
and aid in helping you put things off until tomorrow. It can
make you feel ashamed, or depressed. It can distract you from
what is truly important, and prevent you from ever getting out
of the starting gate on projects.
Here's a question to ask yourself:
"If my environment is a reflection of what's going on in my life
and inside of me, what is it saying?"
Is it saying, for example, that your attention is scattered and
you are unable to focus on any one thing? That you are clinging
to old ways of doing things and are unable to get out of a rut?
That you don't feel worthy of living in a clean,
well-functioning home? Do you acquire things out of a feeling of
scarcity, or use shopping as a way to relieve anxiety?
Here are some practical steps for your clutter, in the "one day
at a time" mode:
1. Make your bed when you get up 2. Put things away as you use
them 3. Wash all dishes before going to bed 4. Declutter one
thing per day (no matter how small)