This Is Your Lucky Day!
Remember that day when everything was perfect? You had positive
momentum. Everything you touched turned into something good. If
you were a golfer on that day you were the master of your sport.
Your shots were long and accurate. Your putts were right on the
money. On that day as a salesperson everyone said yes. As a CEO
your company was profitable in all areas. As a manager your
people were motivated and productive. As a parent your family
was in complete harmony. How well you remember that totally
lucky day. On that day your life was truly a celebration. Now
think about the other kind of day. You know what that was like.
Nothing seemed to go quite right. The harder you tried the worse
it got. On that day even your favorite chocolate didn't taste so
good. What can you now do to have more of those lucky days? You
can create your own luck and here's how to do it. According to
psychologist Richard Wiseman, these four principles can create
good fortune in your life and your career. 1. Maximize Chance
Opportunities: Lucky people are skilled at creating, noticing,
and "acting" upon chance opportunities. 2. Listen to Your Lucky
Hunches: Lucky people make effective decisions by listening to
their intuition and gut feelings. 3. Expect Good Fortune: Lucky
people are certain that the future will be bright. Over time
that expectation becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. 4. Turn Bad
Luck Into Good: Lucky people imagine how things could have been
worse. They don't dwell on their ill fortune. They take control
of the situation. Benjamin Zander tells this story. The
president of a bank was having an important meeting with his
loan officers. Suddenly an employee who was frustrated with a
new client burst into the room. He began shouting and banging
his fist on the desk. The bank president said, "George, please
remember Rule Number 6." George became totally calm, apologized,
and left the room. The bankers returned to their meeting and a
short while later a secretary came in and began yelling loudly
about a problem she was having. The bank president said, "Mary,
please remember Rule Number 6." Mary also became calm, smiled,
and left. The loan officers were stunned. Someone asked, " What
in the world is Rule Number 6?" The bank president said, " Rule
Number 6 is Don't take yourself so darn seriously." What are the
other rules they asked? There aren't any. When we can lighten
up, good luck can find us. It is almost the start of the New
Year. This is a good time to put yourself on the Good Luck Path.
What do you intend to do? You have all heard the old saying:
Most people spend more time planning their vacations than their
lives. Try this--make a list of ten intentions for your new
year. Not resolutions, but intentions! By using these principles
you can become a "GOOD LUCK" magnet. Even your chocolate will
have a new and wonderful flavor. As Jackie Gleason Described
Life -- "How Sweeeet It Is!"