Are People Scribbling On Your Dreams?
Are People Scribbling On Your Dreams?
I recently took my kids to a movie titled "Shark Boy and Lava
Girl". In the movie, a boy named Max dreamt of a planet where
children could have endless fun. He called it Planet Drool. He
recorded all his dreams in his dream journal. So real were Max's
dreams that he actually dreamt the planet into existence until
one day when the class bully, Linus stole his dream journal and
scribbled all over its pages. As a result of Max's dream journal
being defaced with scribbles, Planet Drool was thrown into
danger of destruction, so Shark Boy, Lava Girl and Max had no
choice but to try and save Planet Drool which they obviously did
in the end.
It was an entertaining movie, especially for the kids, but there
was one important lesson in the movie that we can all learn.
Every idea or dream starts out on the beautiful canvas of our
minds, but how it ends up depends very much on who you choose to
share your dream with.
When you share your dreams with the wrong people, you get a lot
of "buts" - "but you know...", "but I don't think", "but are you
really sure....?", "but what if....". They begin to scribble on
your dreams with their negativity. You start to factor all this
negativity into the already confusing equations of your dreams
and chances are you'll end up shelving that fantastic idea in
the back of your mind, together with the thousand other ideas
that have suffered the same fate!
Sharing your dreams with the right people has the exact opposite
effect. Instead of "buts", you get encouragement and support to
help you transform your empty canvas into a masterpiece! It's
easy to find scribblers - they're everywhere - but when you find
people to share your dreams with who will dream with you,
treasure them, and learn from them!
Here are some tips on how to keep people from scribbling on your
dreams :
Reality check!
Know yourself - know what you're good at and what you're not.
Know what drives you and what you're passionate about. When you
do what you're passionate about, the sky's the limit.
Do your homework
Find out everything you can about your dream before your share
it with the world. Visit the library. Scour the Internet. Ask
people who are already doing it or have done it. Mind you, make
sure they've been successful, otherwise they're going to
scribble all over your dream.
Don't walk with turkeys
There's a saying "you can't fly with eagles when you keep
walking with turkeys"! People will always give you their
two-cents worth, without realizing the effect their words have.
Every negative word you hear has the potential to scribble its
way into your subconscious. If you keep company with turkeys,
your dreams are going to end up burnt to a crisp and served on
the thanksgiving table.
Fly with eagles
Keep company with eagles - people who know what it takes to make
dreams come true, people who are positive! Keep your heart and
mind fixed on your goal. If you're sure a dream is workable,
then find ways to work it! Seek guidance and support from the
eagles in your life. Never be afraid to ask questions and seek
help.
Make your dreams real
The best way to do this is to write down every dream or idea you
have. Writing them down makes your dreams something tangible you
can see and work on. Vocalize your dream. Visualize you reaching
your goal everyday. Keep them in your heart and make sure you
jealously guard your dreams against the scribblers.
Persistence and patience
If a dream is worth dreaming, it's worth struggling for.
Problems WILL arise. Take them in stride and keep your eyes
fixed on your goal. Break every problem into smaller tasks and
solve them one by one. Remember... "How do you move a mountain?
One stone at a time, one rock at a time, one boulder at a time".
I wished I had learnt this truth twenty years ago. Whether it's
setting up your own home business or making a million dollars or
something that's never been done before, dreams and ideas are
the seeds of your future. Never, ever let people scribble on
your dream! Protect them and nurture them as you would a young
tree and watch it turn into a forest of all that you desire!