Recovering Your Mental Health
Taking a Look at Yourself
Have you been told that you have a psychiatric or mental illness
like depression, bipolar disorder or manic depression,
schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder,
obsessive-compulsive disorder, dissociative disorder,
post-traumatic stress disorder, an eating disorder or an anxiety
disorder? Do any of the following feelings or experiences make
you feel miserable or get in the way of doing the things you
want to do most or all of the time?
* feeling like your life is hopeless and you are worthless *
wanting to end your life * thinking you are so great that you
are world famous, or that you can do supernatural things
* feeling anxious * being afraid of common things like going
outdoors or indoors, or of being seen in certain places
* feeling like something bad is going to happen and being afraid
of everything
* being very "shaky," nervous, continually upset and irritable *
having a hard time controlling your behavior * being unable to
sit still * doing things over and over again--finding it very
hard to stop doing things like washing your hands, counting
everything or collecting things you don't need
* doing strange or risky things - like wearing winter clothes in
the summer and summer clothes in the winter, or driving too fast
* believing unusual things - like that the television or radio
are talking to you, or that the smoke alarms or digital clocks
in public buildings are taking pictures of you
* saying things over and over that don't make any sense *
hearing voices in your head * seeing things you know aren't
really there * feeling as if everyone is against you or out to
get you * feeling out of touch with the world * having periods
of time go by when you don't know what has happened or how the
time has passed -- you don't remember being there but others say
you were
* feeling unconnected to your body * having an unusually hard
time keeping your mind on what you are doing
* a sudden or gradual decrease or increase in your ability to
think, focus, make decisions and understand things * feeling
like you want to cut yourself or hurt yourself in another
physical way If you answered "yes" to the first question or
answered "yes" to any of these experiences, this booklet is for
you. It is designed to offer helpful information and suggest
things you can do to feel better.
Things To Remember
Above all, remember, you are not alone. Many people have
feelings or experiences like these at some time in their lives.
When such experiences become severe, some people reach out for
help and treatment from health care providers. Others try to get
through it on their own. Some people don't tell anyone what they
are experiencing because they are afraid people will not
understand and will blame them or treat them badly. Other people
share what they are experiencing with friends, family members,
or co-workers. Sometimes these feelings and experiences are so
severe that friends and people around you know you are having
them even though you have not told them. No matter what your
situation is, these feelings and experiences are very hard to
live with. They may keep you from doing what you want to do with
your life, what you have to do for yourself and others, and what
you find rewarding and enjoyable.
As you begin to work on helping yourself feel better, there are
some important things to keep in mind.
1. You will feel better. You will feel happy again. The
disturbing experiences and feelings you've had or are having are
temporary. This may be hard to believe, but it's true. No one
knows how long these symptoms will last.
However, there are lots of things you can do to relieve them and
make them go away. You will want help from others, including
health care providers, family members, and friends in relieving
your symptoms and for ongoing help in staying well.
2. The best time to address these feelings and experiences is
now, before they get any worse . 3. These feelings and
experiences are not your fault. Remember, you are just as
valuable and important as anyone else.
4. When you have these kinds of feelings and experiences, it is
hard to think clearly and make good decisions. If possible,
don't make any major decisions--like whether to get a job or
change jobs, move, or leave a partner or friend--until you feel
better. If you have to make some major decisions, especially
about getting treatment, ask your friends, family members, and
health care providers for help.
5. Spend time with people you know, and work on developing
friendships with people who are positive, caring and who like
you just the way you are. Sometimes people who have these kinds
of feelings and experiences are treated badly by people who
don't understand. Try to stay away from people who treat you
badly.
6. Listen to the concerns of and feedback from your health care
providers, friends, and family members who are trying to be
helpful, and work with them to find solutions that feel right to
everyone involved.
7. These feelings and experiences do not take away your basic
personal rights. You have the right to- o ask for what you want,
say yes or no, and change your mind. o make mistakes. o follow
your own values, standards and spiritual beliefs. o express all
of your feelings, both positive or negative, in a responsible
manner. o be afraid and uncertain. o determine what is important
to you and to make your own decisions based on what you want and
need. o have the friends and interests of your choice. o be
uniquely yourself and allow yourself to change and grow. o have
your own personal space and time. o be safe. o be playful and
frivolous. o be treated with dignity, compassion and respect at
all times. o know the side effects of recommended medications
and treatments. o refuse medications and treatments that are
unacceptable to you.
8. If you are told that the following things are not normal,
don't believe it. They are normal. These kinds of things happen
to everyone and are part of being human.
o Getting angry when you are provoked o Safely expressing
emotions when you are happy, sad or excited o Forgetting things
o Feeling tired and discouraged sometimes o Wanting to make your
own decisions about your treatment and life
9. It's up to you to take responsibility for your behavior and
for getting better. You have the right to as much help as you
need, but it is crucial that you take charge