4 Steps to Creating Anything You Want in Life
4 Steps to Creating Any Result You Want in Life By Lisa
Diane
You can have absolutely anything you want in life. You simply
need to understand HOW to produce desired results.
There's a very simple 4 STEP formula that you can use to
create any result you want in life. To illustrate how this
process works, we're going to suppose that it's your desire to
create WEALTH. (If creating wealth is not something you're
interested in, simply replace WEALTH with whatever you desire
when following the exercise.)
Let's look at the steps you'll take to CREATE WEALTH in your
life.
STEP ONE... BE
To have wealth you must BE wealthy. Now I know what you're
thinking, "Yeah, that's right. Tell me something I don't know. I
don't have wealth because I'm not wealthy."
Your state of BEING is a critical step in becoming wealthy--or
any other change you make. The next 3 steps won't work correctly
until you can change your state of being.
Think of it this way. The ability to "BE" something is really
nothing more than an image that you hold of yourself deep inside
your mind. You can "BE" many things--a football fan, a
Christian, a vegetarian, a mother--the list goes on. You know
it's a state of being when you don't have to think about it and
question it all the time--you just ARE that particular role or
attribute.
The problem comes in when we need to CHANGE our state of BEING
in order to produce a new and desired result. For example, let's
suppose you've been overweight your entire life. In your mind
you ARE a fat person. That's a state of BEING. And let's assume
you go on a diet and as you lose weight your body is transformed
into a thin and trim picture-perfect model. Are you a fat person
or are you a thin person? Unless you've done something more than
just go on a diet--which only effects your body--you are still a
fat person. Given time your body will revert back to its old
self. Why? Because the change MUST take place from the INSIDE
out. Otherwise, your outer body and your inner self will be in
conflict. The body (the thin person) is fit, trim and full of
energy. Your inner-self (the fat person) still holds the image
of someone who is overweight. Eventually, you inner self will
win the battle and your body will concede.
In order to produce lasting change and create the result that
you really want, you must CHANGE your state of BEING. You must
erase the old picture and accept your new role or title as WHAT
and WHO you are.
The truth is, you can BE anything you choose to be. Today, right
this very minute, you can BE wealthy. Just decide. You have a
RIGHT to BE wealthy. You CAN be WEALTHY. It's just a matter of a
simple decision. So, BE wealthy.
OK, that's it for STEP ONE. Now on to STEP TWO... THINK
This one's a little bit harder. The first thing you need to
realize is that your THOUGHTS create your life. If you don't
believe me, look around right now at your life (where you live,
the job you have, the cars you drive, the relationships you
have, etc)--ALL of these things are a direct result of the
THOUGHTS you have constantly focused on up until now. You (and
your THOUGHTS!) are responsible for both the good and the bad.
Like we mentioned previously, what's great about this idea is
that you can STOP living your life as a victim and START taking
control and creating the life that you desire.
To be wealthy you need to begin to THINK thoughts of wealth. You
MUST completely eliminate negative thoughts. As soon as a
negative thought creeps up on you--SQUASH IT! Get rid of it
right away.
Begin to THINK positive and prosperous thoughts. Don't think
about NOT having money or NOT being able to pay your bills or
NOT being able to buy something you want. Instead, think ONLY
POSITIVE THOUGHTS. Imagine every outcome as the best possible
scenario. See yourself with lots of money, with MORE than you
need, with financial abundance. Not tomorrow... not next week...
not next year... NOW! You must see it NOW!
NOW is the only POINT OF POWER. Yesterday doesn't matter,
tomorrow doesn't exist. Only NOW makes any difference. You can
eliminate almost 100% of fear, doubt, worry, anxiety, guilt,
etc., if you'll simply REFUSE to live in the PAST or PREDICT THE
FUTURE (as far as the negative things that "could" happen.)
NOW is all that matters--it's all there is. Begin to live in the
NOW--seeing yourself has BEING wealthy, as HAVING MORE than you
could ever want or need. If you'll do it--barring doubt and
negative thoughts--YOU WILL HAVE IT!
What you THINK ABOUT you BRING ABOUT. If you want to CHANGE YOUR
LIFE you can only do so by CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS. So, if you
want to BE WEALTHY, you must begin to THINK as a wealthy person.
The results will follow--I know it's true.
Now, on to STEP THREE... SPEAK
Your WORDS are very powerful. They tend to follow your thoughts.
Just as with "being" and "thinking", your WORDS can work FOR YOU
or AGAINST YOU. The choice, as always, is YOURS.
The Bible gives us many great examples of the POWER of WORDS. In
Genesis we witness the first demonstration of the power of WORDS
(or the LAW OF COMMAND). God SPOKE the world--and everything in
it and on it--into existence. He started with NOTHING and began
SPEAKING it into existence. You must WATCH YOUR WORDS--because
just as it is with "thinking"-- what you TALK ABOUT, you BRING
ABOUT. This is another immutable law. You can't change it but
you can benefit from it if you understand how to use it properly.
You need to begin SPEAKING yourself into wealth. Begin using "I
AM" statements. I AM WEALTHY. Not "someday" I'll be wealthy...
or I'm going to be wealthy. I AM WEALTHY--present tense--IN THE
NOW!
Pay attention to what you say. Don't go around speaking yourself
poor, sick, unhappy, etc. Say ONLY positive things. You can
literally change your entire life by simply changing what you
think and what you say.
I take this very seriously. A rule in my company is that
everyone MUST have something good to say, to every person, every
time. And no one can walk around saying "we can't" do something
or "it's too hard" or "we don't have enough" or "it's not
working" or "I just knew (whatever bad thing) was going to or is
going to happen." This kind of talk is absolutely forbidden.
WATCH YOUR WORDS. A good way to really get a handle on how you
speak is to get a tape recorder and walk around with it for a
few days. Tape record everything you say and play it back at the
end of the day. You'll be shocked--even while knowing you were
being taped--what kind of negative, self-defeating and critical
words you use in a day.
CHANGE your speaking right away. Practice saying very little and
not reacting to any news verbally until you can speak POSITIVE,
PROSPEROUS outcomes in every situation.
The last step in the CREATION PROCESS is STEP FOUR... ACT
You're already "BEING" a wealthy person. You're THINKING like a
wealthy person and SPEAKING like a wealthy person. Your last
step is to ACT like a wealthy person. How do you ACT wealthy?
It's simple.
Go where wealthy people go. Visit affluent neighborhoods. Drive
around and pick out your new house. Visit car dealerships and
test drive your dream car. Go window shopping in upscale malls
or shopping areas. Spend the day in a museum. Rub elbows with
other wealthy people.
You don't have to spend money to do this. Wealthy people don't
spend every moment of the day spending money. But if you do,
spend it with a GENEROUS and GRATEFUL spirit--knowing that you
have PLENTY of money for what you want or need.
Any time I begin a new venture or build a new business I teach
the people working with me to "act as if." I tell them this from
the very start. That regardless of what our current
circumstances may be--let's say we're building a company with a
vision for thousands of customers, but when we first start we
may only have a dozen or so customers--we must "ACT AS IF" we
were already servicing the thousands.
This is a very important practice to master. It's a natural
expression of BEING, THINKING and SPEAKING.
Start right now. Begin ACTING like the wealthy person that you
ARE. It doesn't matter if your current surroundings or
circumstances make it appear that you're not wealthy. If you
will BE, THINK, SPEAK and ACT wealthy, YOU WILL BE WEALTHY.
That's the 4-STEP FORMULA for creating any result you want in
life.
It's a simple process to learn, but it will take some time to
do. You have to really be aware and live in the NOW. Don't let
your mind wander off and create scenes of "lack" or "scarcity."
Don't let your words get away from you and speak in negative or
scarce terms. And don't act poor.
Wealth is a state of being. As soon as you understand this you
will BE wealthy. This is the reason that a wealthy person can
lose all of their money and within just a short time be right
back on top. Look at Donald Trump. He has more money today than
he did before he lost everything. You can separate a wealthy
person from their money--temporarily--but they will always be
wealthy. And money or riches is just a by-product of wealth.
The same works in reverse. There are many accounts of poor
people coming into large sums of money--winning the lottery,
receiving an inheritance, etc. Within just a short time they're
back to being poor--many times even worse off than before they
received the money. Why? Because they're poor. They don't
understand the principles of wealth. Even though they may have
money, they're still operating like a poor person.
These things I'm sharing with you may or may not make a lot of
sense to you, but regardless, I promise you that they're true.
And I guarantee that they'll work for you if you will truly
follow my instructions and make the changes necessary.
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If you'll follow these steps and practice positive living every
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have my personal promise!
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