It's Not What Happens in Life that Counts - It's How You Respond
to It!
Have you ever noticed how life throws surprises at people? One
person may see the surprise as a gift and embrace the chance to
move through it. Another person may have the same experience and
see it as a royal pain in the rear - something almost that life
is punishing them with.
We have a choice. We can decide to live with a prosperity
consciousness knowing that our life is joyful, rich, wonderful,
prosperous and loving. Or, we can decide to play the victim with
a poverty consciousness that is full of lack, limitation, and a
life that is never enough.
When I went to my son's graduation in Oregon, I had a chance to
experience the extremes. Whenever I need to go to the airport, I
use the same driver. Well, this particular time, my driver
wasn't available and I had to use a different one. I spent 40
minutes on the way to LAX with a man who did nothing but
complain and find fault with everything and everyone. He
complained about the business their company had lost as a result
of SARS and the war. Then he complained about having to work so
hard since business has picked up. It was clear that nothing
made this man happy - he almost reeked a miserable perfume. The
weather was clear, bright, and sunny, but he was missing the
entire scenery and the beauty of the moment because he was
consumed with his own limited vision, a poverty consciousness
frame of mind.
When I arrived in Portland, I was blessed with a shuttle driver
who had an amazing perspective. He had been born in Nigeria and
was sent to a refugee camp in Kenya. He described the conditions
but didn't dwell on them. What he really spoke about with such
passion was the gift he received in being sponsored to come to
the United States, the chance to live with his wife and three
children, and the transitions in his eleven years since he'd
been here. He worked for five years in a copy shop, drove a cab
for six years, and then switched to driving a shuttle because
his quality of life improved. "It's like a rebirth" he said to
me. "Everyone is so nice, so calm, so peaceful, so courteous, so
considerate, so giving, and so loving." This man was a joy to be
around and I could see that his life was prospering. A 25 minute
ride became a 2 and 1/2 hour trip as we rode through an
incredible storm of ice and hail, accidents and closed roads,
but this man never once became upset or complained. He is
clearly living with an abundance and prosperity consciousness.
Each man is living the life he is creating with his thoughts.
And, like these men, we can choose to live a life that is a
dream or a nightmare. It's all in our perspective and what we
choose to focus on.
We have opportunities to grow in life. That's a given. Our
attitude about what happens in life and the way we respond is
what really counts!
If you find yourself stuck with a limiting belief or negative
self-talk, choose to reframe your view and see things from a
different perspective. Develop a prosperity consciousness. Take
off the blinders that you've been wearing and make a decision to
see life from a wider vista. Let go of the "I can'ts" and grab
on to the "I cans" in life. Let go of the fear and grab on to
the faith that each moment leads you to a wondrous experience.
Make a conscious decision to see the gifts, the joy, the
opportunities to become even more in your life - more of what
you came here to be.
Make a decision to live each day with a prosperity consciousness
so you can receive all that is rich, wonderful, prosperous and
joyful.
Stand up and declare that you choose a life that is full of
peace, love, courtesy, consideration, generosity, and love. And
when you go to Portland, choose the shuttle.