The Power of Intention
Copyright 2005 Kathy Paauw
Overwhelmed! That's a word I've heard a lot lately. A client
recently exclaimed, "Who has the time to focus on one thing at a
time these days? That's a luxury I just cannot afford!" In an
effort to be more efficient, most of us have learned how to
multitask.
Computers are known for their ability to multitask. For example,
you can compose a letter while scanning for viruses or
downloading a software update. But have you noticed that even
computers are often not as efficient when multitasking? The
functions slow way down when too many resources are being called
upon at one time. Our brains are even more susceptible to loss
of productivity when we try to do two or more things at once -
especially if they are complex or require a high degree of
concentration. Studies show a drop in efficiency of 30-50% on
individual tasks performed while multitasking. Brain studies
show that we actually cannot multi-task. We simply change focus
very rapidly from one task to another.
Perhaps one of the worst forms of multitasking is when we're
trying to spend "quality" time with a loved one, while also
trying to be "productive." I'll never forget an experience I had
years ago when I went to my daughter's soccer game on a day that
I was feeling overwhelmed and behind. I had grabbed the mail on
the way out the door. In my attempt to be efficient with my
time, I was sorting through the mail while watching the game.
Unfortunately, I was looking down when my daughter made her only
goal of the game. I felt terrible when someone said, "Did you
see that? Your daughter just made a goal!" Although she never
knew, it was one of those moments I could never get back. I
could have read the mail anytime.
Reduce the overwhelm -- narrow your focus to three intentions at
a time!
Are you living your life on purpose? Is your self-talk full of
"I have-to," "I gotta," or "I should"? How often do you say "I
choose to..."?
Maybe it's time to quit shoulding on yourself and be at choice!
You're eventually headed for a crash landing if you do not honor
your values and your life purpose by consciously choosing what
you want and being intentional with your behavior and responses.
Your "auto pilot" may not be set to get you where you want to
go. Begin by jotting down some intentions. When you set your
intentions, choose ones that you're willing to put your time and
energy behind and that are most important to YOU. Keep them
short and simple. When you look back over the list, does it
represent what matters most to you at this time in your life?
Here are some examples: