Soulmates, Are They Pre-ordained?
One day a telegram arrived at a man's door. When he opened it,
he learned that his best friend had passed away...
I was at conference recently where I heard this most inspiring
story.
The story was about a boy and a girl who grew up together as
best friends. As they grew into adulthood, they became
pre-occupied with their personal lives. Although, they knew that
they lived just down the street from each other, they were too
busy to seek out one another.
Every week they wanted to visit each other but thought to
themselves, "Oh well, I am too busy today. We live close enough
to each other to visit anytime. I will try tomorrow." It was not
long before tomorrow turned into next week and then next month.
Eventually a year had passed by.
Soon the distance between their homes began to appear more
distant. The longer they waited to look for each other, the
further the distance between their homes grew. This was followed
by more excuses that did nothing but increase the gap between
the two friends.
One day the male received a telegram informing him that his best
friend passed away. As if he had gone into a shock, he asked
himself, "What happened?"
He thought to himself, "If I knew I was going lose her without
seeing her again, I would have taken the time to look for her. I
wished I taken the time to tell her how much I loved her. Now
she's gone, and I am now all alone."
Regardless what this individual thought or felt, his best friend
had left the earth for good.
Do soulmates exist? And, are soulmates pre-ordained?
There is a biblical verse that goes something like this. "Before
I formed thee I knew thee and ordain thee to be..." What the
verse tells us is that before you were born, your creator knew
you. He knew your need for a mate and ordained you and another
person to be soulmates.
The problem is too many people do not invest themselves 100% in
recognizing their soulmate. They hold out, settling for
unhealthy relationships until it is far too late.
Before a mother brings a child into this world the mother will
know the child's need. She will ready a room with all the things
the soon to be newborn will need. Likewise the supreme power
that put you here on earth knew you would need a soulmate. One
has been prepared just for you.
You can say "I will find my soulmate tomorrow. I am too busy
today."
But, if you do, take time to remember the story at the beginning
of this article. It was procrastination that prevented the two
friends from finding each other until death separated them
forever. Your soulmate is not going to be waiting for you
forever!
I know how it feels to be in relationship other than that of
soulmates. You have probably been hurt or disappointed so often,
you don't trust anymore. I know all about the pain associated
with break-ups. All of the pain, frustration and loneliness you
may feel can be avoided if only you will not turn to excuses and
justifications, but instead make the effort to look for your
soulmate.
Yes, soulmates do exist. Adam and Eve were the first soulmates
recorded in human history. When Adam was created, his creator
said, it is not good for man to be alone. Thus a helpmate was
created for Adam.
What is a helpmate, and why would a person need a helpmate if
the person were able to make it alone?
This leads me to believe that in order for a man or woman to
feel complete, they will need each other as helpmates. Adam and
Eve were created for each other. I am using the word 'for' to
show that soulmates belong to each other and nobody else.
For instance, when Eve ate the forbidden fruit that could have
separated them, they sought out each other and did what ever it
took so they could be together. An effort to remain together is
clearly demonstrated between the two.
Are you too busy to find your soulmate? Do you allow fear of
effort or failure to discourage you? I do understand how you
feel. I have clients who feel the same as you do. I have also
gone through the same experiences you have.
Here is what I tell my clients. When treasure hunters hear of
buried treasures, they don't make excuses. They don't let fear
of the possibility of being bitten by a poisonous snake or their
ship sinking prevent them from going after the treasure. They
find the exact map that will lead them to the treasure site.
When they get there, they dive or dig for the treasure. When
they find the treasure, they do their part to ensure that any
piece of gold bar they find is real gold.
It will be nice if our soulmates can fall on our laps without
any effort on our part. Unfortunately, life does not work like
that does it?
How does it feel to go from one lousy relationship to the other,
because you don't want to invest the time or effort to find your
own soulmate?
I know how it feels to think you are madly in love. Then, a year
or two later you find that it was all a big mistake.
So where do you turn for help. Where do you get that map to help
you find your soulmate? When you do meet the person, how can you
be certain it is the right person?
First, forgive and forget about the past and start fresh from
today.
Human beings are created with the need to be with the opposite
sex. Not just any opposite sex, but a specific man or woman whom
they will feel complete with. Soulmates are pre-ordained.
Meeting a man or woman is relatively easy. Recognizing the
person who is intended to be your soulmate is another thing. In
the book "How to Identify your Soulmate", I reveal important
knowledge you must have to help you to recognize your soulmate.
Like a treasure hunting map, the e-book provides an effective
soulmate map that any one can use. The ebook will help you to
learn how to get a confirmation that someone is your ordained
mate. Every effort is made to constantly include special updates
in the ebook as they become available.
You can also learn how to handle the effect of break-ups. I have
dedicated an entire ebook on my site to help people succeed.
Soulmate relationships have incredible soothing powers; they are
heart warming and possess healing qualities.
The process of recognizing your mate is very real. You may be
the only person keeping you from finding your special someone.
Live today as if it is your last day. You will never know how
successful you will be unless you try. My hope is that you don't
allow procrastination, ego, pride, excuses and fear to prevent
you from finding a rewarding relationship with your pre-ordained
soulmate.