Your Preferences--as Unique as Your Fingerprints
Would life be different, if you believed that everything you
love and enjoy is just right for you?
What would happen if you knew yourself so well you could say
with confidence, "No thank you, I prefer..."
How would you look at others, if you really understood that
their choices are perfect for them?
The Law of Attraction teaches us to recognize our personal
preferences by noticing how things feel and asking ourselves,
"Which feels better? This or that?" When we take the time to
notice our feelings, we learn about ourselves in a way that
leads to great personal freedom and happiness.
Before I learned about the Law of Attraction and how I attract
people, situations and opportunities in complete accord with my
vibration (vibes), I tried to live by a set of standards or
principles. I remember a time when I asked my pastor if he could
give me a list of these principles so I could make sure I was
living the right way. I did everything I could to be the perfect
mother, dutiful housewife and selfless Christian. I thought that
by conforming to what other people expected, I would become
happy too. I was NOT a happy, joyful person. I was a person in
great emotional and eventually physical, pain.
But the Law of Attraction taught me to notice when something
doesn't feel good, because that feeling of discomfort is an
indicator that something is NOT good for me. Anything out of
alignment with who I am and all the purposes I came to fulfill
will NOT feel good. WOW! I had been placing my hand on a hot
stove and trying to feel comfortable with the pain. I'd lived
with chronic emotional and physical pain for so long that I was
becoming numb to it. (A third degree burn is painless because
all the nerve endings are burned away.)
One day, the truth finally dawned on me: Only I can choose what
is best for me. No one can tell me what is good for me--only I
can tell. And the way I tell is by noticing how everything
feels, then looking for the thought, answer, idea or thing that
feels best.
"Good feels good. Bad feels bad." Abraham-Hicks Knowing and
honoring my personal preferences causes me to fulfill ALL my
life purposes--naturally. Everything I set out to do during this
lifetime is already programmed within me. The way I 'read the
program' is to notice what brings me great joy and follow that
lead. In fact, this is the shortest and easiest way to find
fulfillment. Before I learned about the Law of Attraction, I
felt like I had lost 30 years of my life by trying to endure a
poor marriage. But within 5 years of applying the Law of
Attraction in the way described in this article, I felt caught
up on life. About two years ago, I had a profound realization:
"Today, I am exactly where I would be, if I had done the first
55 years of my life differently." That is a GREAT feeling!
Now I tell my students: "Your personal preferences are as unique
to you as your fingerprints. Only you can do certain things in
this life and your preferences are there to guide you into
actually living life in the most joyfully satisfying way!"
What about you? Are you seeing yourself in this light? Have you
wondered why you don't fit in with the crowd? Are you ready to
accept yourself and your preferences as being right for YOU?
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