He Loves You, She Loves You Not
SHE LOVES ME, HE LOVES ME NOT
Who Is Some Who Loves You?
1. Someone who sees the best in you.
If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you
have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always
looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that
experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate
who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today
people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by
your potential.
2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.
There are so many times in your life when you need that little
edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It
can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you
want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring
you in the face. That person who knows things could go either
way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is
the person who is more valuable to you than gold.
3. Someone who watches over you.
You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if
you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the
way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who
love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a
big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?
4. Someone to watch you back.
You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard,
to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You
like to think that people will rejoice when you do well. Many
don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you
when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that
person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.
5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.
You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds
you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need
anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand
there are people who just let you know that the only way any of
us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in
the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the
person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.
6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the
head.
When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be
made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a
problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge
sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person
who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and
have self respect.
7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you
No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and
tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you.
It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell
you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you
to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the
extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.
8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and
enjoy life part of the time.
If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are
likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your
labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see
yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and
performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is
short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who
is looking out for you and your health.
9. The one who smiles at you and means it.
The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and
mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick
pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist. The eyes
are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's
smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be
with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile
that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you
stranded and alone.
10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.
You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of
you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't
like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you
through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few
pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as
attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you
all the way, no strings or demands.
Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you.
Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have
carried that over into the most important relationships in their
lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like
comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.