Compliments - A Very Powerful Dating Tool!
Giving a compliment can be a very powerful tool when dating
women. Of course, too many compliments can also make you look
desperate and needy. There needs to be a happy medium. So, what
is the key? As outlined in my book "the Ultimate Online Dating
Handbook" you need to give a compliment from a position of
power. If you can master this one form of communication then she
will see you as a powerful person and continue to crave your
attention and approval.
For instance, a well placed compliment can put her in a good
frame of mind for accepting you. The best compliment is on
something she would have put a lot of time and effort into.
Something most guys would not even notice. Making this sort of
compliment will set you apart from the pack. And, put you in her
good graces. For example, say she has added highlights to her
hair. Tell her how good it makes her look. You will want to do
this calmly and with a playful attitude, be sure not to seem to
needy or desperate. Make sure to say it like you mean it. If you
don't sound sincere, the compliment will be rendered useless and
she will consider it false.
With pretty women you should try to avoid compliments on their
looks. While I'm sure she may appreciate it, you can be sure
every loser trying to get her attention is telling her the same
thing. You on the other hand want to stand out. You want to be
thought of as being different standing away from the pack. So
when speaking with a pretty women be witty and funny. Make her
laugh, then as she's laughing tell her how beautiful her smile
is. Look her right in the eyes and say "My you have such a
beautiful smile!" Do not dwell on her smile or the compliment.
Move on talking about something else. But, remember, only
attempt this compliment after you've been witty and funny and
you've made her smile. Also, know a bit about women's fashion.
Is she wearing something that's ultra chic, is her jewelry
really different. Find something about her that no other guy is
going to notice.
Don't compliment her every single time you see her, because you
have nothing to say is not a time for a compliment. To provide
the most power, compliments must be used sparingly and delivered
sincerely.
Best of Luck! Marie Clare Relationship Consultant & Author