Outdoor Sex
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Outdoor Sex by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Excerpted from "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord - A Couple's Menu for
Feeding Passion & Fidelity."
Spring and autumn are the perfect times to engage in some
delicious outdoor sex. I find early spring, late summer and
especially early fall the most wonderful times to get back to
the primal sexual basics. There are many reasons why I feel this
way, with the most important being that an outdoor tryst is one
of the best ways possible to renew passion, because it combines
several passionate activities into one. Being naked outside
elicits deep, primal, wild and uninhibited desires, it's
adventurous and can be spontaneous. With the right scenario you
can also make it romantic. Having sex outdoors is a great way to
add some excitement and variety to your sex life. I must admit
that personally I don't feel there is anything better than
outdoor sex. The feel of the elements on your naked body elicits
uninhibited passions. The touch of the wind, the earth, the sun,
and the water on your naked body can be very arousing. Even if
you are alone and masturbating, outdoor sex can greatly enhance
your pleasure. I once had one of my best sexual experiences
ever, masturbating alone, naked on a beach with the most
incredible breeze blowing across my body. With outdoor sex, the
entire world can become your bedroom, providing endless
opportunities for enriched excitement and enhanced pleasure. It
can be tender and soft or wild and animalistic. A great
adventure for you and your partner is to gather up a blanket,
pack a lunch and head out to a nice isolated, private spot in a
park or by a lake; someplace that is enjoyable for the both of
you. Make sure it's isolated or you may get arrested. Hang your
clothes over a tree branch and spend the entire day there being
naked. Bask in the beauty of nature. Let it consume your naked
senses. Nature provides you with a fantastic sexual playground,
where different textures and varied places such as on the grass,
in the water, bent over a stump, hanging from a branch, lying on
the sand, on flat land or on a hill etc. will enhance your
sensations and provide you with the ability to maneuver many
different positions and techniques. Make love over and over
whenever the mood hits you. You will be amazed how spending the
day naked will help you feel in the mood quite frequently. Be
adventurous and explore. You can surprise your lover with an
outdoor quickie, or a beautiful lovemaking event or plan a whole
day of savoring. Get more creative by adding some role play or
pack a picnic basket with some of your favorite foods to play
with, like strawberries or bananas, whip cream, ice cream or
whatever you desire and feed each other like Kings and Queens or
place it strategically on the body to be eaten. It can also be
great fun to romp in your own yard, porch or patio under the
stars or in broad delight.
After sharing such a delightful outdoor tryst with your lover,
you will not only be physically satisfied, but you will also
discover that you have increased feelings of closeness and
intimacy. The feel of the elements on your body will turn you
both into wild animals and renew your passion to new heights. So
go ahead, get naked and have some fantastic outdoor sex soon!