Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman's Fire
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Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman's Fire By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
1. Touch Women are very tactile beings. They love to be touched
and caressed. Hold her, massage her, tease and tantalize her
playfully with your fingers. Don't go straight to the genitals,
pay attention to her whole body.
2. Kisses Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons
for a woman. Looking into her eyes or touching her face while
kissing her can increase the arousal of the kiss. Kissing other
parts of the body such as the neck, belly, inner thighs,
buttocks, pelvis area surrounding the vagina, fingers and maybe
even the feet for some can heighten her pleasure.
3. Emotional Connection For women, sex is usually an emotional
act as well as a physical act. The deeper the emotional
connection, the better the sex will be for her and the deeper
her desire for her lover will become. Share your feelings with
your woman and express how you feel about her freely. For her,
what goes on outside the bedroom is an important factor of what
will occur in the bedroom.
4. Foreplay & Aferplay There is nothing that is a bigger turn
off for a woman than a lover who immediately begins penetration
without tending to her body and mind. Just as important as
foreplay is the period of time immediately following the sex,
afterplay. Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the
sexual experience and will have a great impact on how she
responds to her lover in the future.
5. Make Her Feel Important, Women also need to feel important to
their lover. Take an active interest in who she is as a person
and what goes on in her life. Ignite your woman's passion by
making her feel special, cherished and adored.
6. Value and Respect For sex to be at its best, most women need
to feel valued and respected by their lover. Her desire and
level of satisfaction will grow deeper. She will want her lover
more frequently and be more motivated to meet his sexual needs
as well.
7. Listen Women are more attracted to a man who listens to her
and actually hears her. Being heard makes her feel important and
valued, thereby increasing her feelings of intimacy with her
lover and encouraging her to be free and uninhibited in her
lovemaking. Her level of satisfaction is enhanced and her desire
for her lover increased.
8. Show Her Your Passion & Desire A woman wants to be wanted
passionately. She wants to see your deep desire for her and feel
how much you want her. Pursue her passionately and she will be a
wild cat full of desire.
9. Take Your Time The path to orgasm is just as fulfilling as
the orgasm itself and the path is also important for enhancing
her orgasmic experience. Take the long meandering road,
savoring, pampering and adoring every part of her body along the
way.
10. Be a Master of Oral The majority of women cannot achieve
orgasm through intercourse. Taking pleasure in delighting your
woman orally is by far one of the most enjoyable ways for her to
be satisfied.