Infidelity Investigation - Warning Signs of Wife Infidelity And
How to Catch The Cheater
Infidelity Investigation - Warning Signs of Wife Infidelity And
How to Catch The Cheater
Definition of Infidelity
According to the dictionary, infidelity means unfaithfulness to
a sexual partner, and in layman terms this simply means that
your girlfriend / wife or your boyfriend/husband could be
cheating on you for someone else. No marriage, no matter how
rich, religious, political or powerful, is immune to the threat
of unfaithfulness, so say experts who give advice on how to
survive infidelity.
Relationship Infidelity
Infidelity in a marriage or in relationship is a bitter pill to
swallow. Not simply because we strive to make our relationships
thrive and survive in an all-challenging world, but because
nobody, including you, can live along successfully with this
lie! Infidelity in relationship can happen to you!.
Relationship infidelity is cruel and shows no mercy to the one
left out in the cold. It doesn't really matter if you are
married or attached, it is a symbol of the worst destruction to
your life and soul which is yet to unleash to the unexpecting
you. This cheating infidelity is a symbolic of having your
deepest fears and doubts exposed.
Do you know that there was a poll conducted to the Americans
during the President Clinton's "intern" scandal? These
infidelity statistics obtained were somewhat shocking
22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted
to having sexual relations or infidelity adultery outside their
marriage sometime in the past.
About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an
affair at some point in some marriage, according to
"Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn.
5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported
having sex with someone other than their spouse in a sexual
infidelity survey conducted on 1997.
17 percent divorces in the United States are caused by marital
infidelity.
Is your lover playing cheat on you at the time of reading
this?
If you were to confront your lovers at "point blank", it will
definitely jeopardize your current relationship. No matter what
sort of hardship you are facing now suspecting your lover of
relationship infidelity, there are often the smarter ways on how
you would determine your case to be true. Surely there must be
some ways to put your mind at ease for once and for all if you
suspect that your spouse is cheating you for another man.
How to catch a cheater
Here are the smart ways to detect signs of wife infidelity.
Remember, the future of your relationship could depend on your
ability to spot the telltale signs in time.
Sudden good appearance:
First impressions always count. Remember when the days you met
each other, you would normally go all out to dress up, being
sensitive to your attire/wardrobe, even your personal grooming
to that you would look nice in front of each other? Well, the
fact that these things do happen to each if not most of us, it
is often the best telltale sign on whether your partner is
trying to impress or attract someone.
Is your partner treating you differently?
When your partner is involved with someone else, it is often
than not your partner will start to treat you differently from
how he/she used to. Even on the subconscious level, this could
be detrimental to your current relationship. Hence, it is easy
for you to pick up this alarming sign when the time comes.
A new mood of conversation?
Let's say your wife used to talk about cooking and spend most
of her time in front of her cookery and gadgets, then suddenly
you notice a sudden swing of mood in her. She now talks about
grooming, talks about cars, or even start to dabble with wine or
alcohol which she never used to. Well, ask yourself, could there
be someone else who might be influencing her? Could the stuff
that she normally talks about, places that she normally goes
relate to the person she's hiding from you?
More overtime?
Let's face it. How many of us who are working for people would
rather stay in the office till wee hours than slouching
ourselves in front of the idiot box (TV)? Your partner would
normally drives back home at close to 6 o'clock in the evening.
Eventually at 7 o'clock, 8.30 pm, 10 or even not going back
home? Hmmm..it is a well known understanding that your lover's
working habits will undoubtly change as her affair unfolds. Be
on the lookout for work-related tell tale signs.
No time! No time! No time!
Just as infidelity cost your partner money, it may as well
ended up causing your lovers time. Remember that we are all
granted by God only 24 hours a day. So it's not surprising that
your partner would try to steal the time away from you just to
be with her lover.
Business traveling.
Travelling for business is the most common excuses for the
cheating lovers as well as being the best getaway from you. Even
if your lover really on business traveling, it is often the best
practice to afford a cheating lover a chance to literally sway
away from you.
Telephone conversion behaviour
More often than not, illicit affairs often take place through
the phone. Many foolish lovers take the risk of calling their
partners at home or having their partners call them at home.
Much to my surprise, many husbands ended up discovering their
partners' infidelity either directly or indirectly by the
telephone.
Your dwindling sex life
Let's face it. The moment your partner goes after her secret
lover, do you think she might be interest in you? What more in
having sex with you? God knows how attractive the secret lover
to her. So it's crucial for you to be on alert for any type of
changes or frequency of your sex life together.
Smell like an animal!
Each person has his or her own unique smell or taste. At first,
you might not notice it, but when the time comes, you would feel
completely different smell or taste. Remember that every lovers
out there would do anything to make their first impression
better? It could be their bodily smell or cologne which may
attract to each other which is the reason behind the change of
smell. Friendly advice, be on close guard. This is a warning
sign for you.
Invasion of your home:
It's quite common for your partner to end up with her lover in
your home. When this happens, pay close attention to all the
items or belongings which were left behind. Scour and collect
these crucial evidence in everywhere in your house that you
could possible imagine.
Gifts but not from you?
At times you would end up finding a gifts which were not from
you. Look out for these telltale signs especially near
Valentine's day or Christmas. If they are not from you, then who
else?
Email usage
What does it tell you that all of a sudden you see your partner
having an interest in using the computer? What else does this
indicate when she's using more emails than she is talking to
you? Chances are this may as well indicate the involvement of
her online or cyber affair. Don't take this lightly as most of
the time these affairs can be detrimental to your marriage.
Emotional attachment can be extremely strong, and could progress
from cyberspace to physical reality.
Sudden spike of handphone bills.
With the advent of technology advancement in
telecommunications, it's no wonder that life has been easier for
both you and your partner to communicate at any point of time.
But beware, this could also be a great opportunity for your
partner to stay in touch of her secret lover.
The physical evidence waiting to be found.
Most of the time the physical evidence indication of your
lover's secret life can be easily found in front of your eyes.
When your partner is not available, check her handbags, her
wastepaper basket, her filling cabinets, drawers, or any other
sort of place you could think of. Keep your eyes open. With
luck, you could find yourself a new sets of physical evidence of
infidelity you can find.
How would your partner behave in front of others?
Studies and reports have indicated that most men will likely
have an affair with someone he already knows, either from the
women he normally comes in contact with, or even business
associates. Try to be observant, as at times your partner may
behave strangely in front of these people.
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