The Attack & Defense of the Mail Order Bride Business (Part One)
I am just taking a moment to write because I came across your
site on the internet while researching the legality of mail
order bride services. I am not going to tell you anything you do
not already know. You must realize that the only reason males
look for brides from impoverished nations is because these are
the only women who are desperate enough to pretend to care about
you. If these mail order brides from Asia, Latin America,
Eastern Europe, etc. were financially independent, or had any
options in their home countries, they would not even give you
the time of day. You have struck out with American women because
you have nothing to offer. I'm not speaking about monetary
wealth here; I'm saying you have no good qualities at all.
Surprise! Did it ever occur to you that the things you look for
in a woman might be similar to the qualities that women look for
in men? (That is, women who have options). Kindness,
intelligence, sense of humor, morality - these are all desirable
qualities, none of which have anything to do with money. You are
just trying to console yourself for being undesirable by saying
that American women only want "Mr. Big". The only thing you can
offer is passage to America and a possible green card (things
that American women do not need). So you provide these things to
lure vulnerable young women away from lives of poverty. Are you
at all embarrassed or ashamed about that? You do realize that
there is nothing about you as a person that would make anyone
want to marry you, only things that you happen to possess by
virtue of being lucky enough to be born in the U.S. You are
trying to get something you do not deserve: love, loyalty,
respect, companionship. News Flash: If you have to pay someone
to be around you, then the relationship is not real. Accept the
fact that you are a loser, doomed to be alone, or content
yourself with finding another loser like yourself who may want
to be with you. Lower your standards to what you can reasonably
attain, and leave these poor, vulnerable women alone. I want to
cry when I think of the horror these women face when they are
stuck with losers like you. Sincerely, Amy XXXXXXX
Amy I am going to try to start a dialogue with you. I suspect
this will be difficult based on your preference for
name-calling, but I will still try to enlighten you on why your
assumptions and impressions are not accurate. My experience with
people who attack from an emotional, indoctrinated bias is that
they are not inclined to learn or change regardless of the
facts. However, my points will serve others. Understand every
point I make will have exceptions, and that forming opinions on
infrequent deviations does not diminish the overall benefits for
the involved majority.