DANGERS OF DIGITAL DATING
As we enter the new millennium the Internet is evolving into a
major meeting ground, one that affords us access to people all
over the world and draws us daily into online relationships with
individuals we have not yet met. An increasing number of people
are using the Internet to meet and get acquainted with potential
mates.
While many of those online interactions do bloom into
friendships and relationships, a small number do not have happy
endings Beth Wadsworth learned this lesson the hard way. When
Wadsworth began exchanging emails with Thomas Abney, she thought
she, too, might have found love on the Internet. It turns out
that what she had really found was a dangerous man who would try
to kill her.
Wadsworth met Abney in 1999 while surfing the Web. The two hit
it off and began corresponding. "We just started talking and
trading information about our lives," says Wadsworth. " We
seemed to have the same values and morals." After only one month
of emailing each other, Wadsworth invited her potential new love
to visit her. Abney flew to San Diego, where Wadsworth lives,
and the two spent some time getting to know each other off-line.
Abney wasn't who he appeared to be, however.
When the visit was coming to an end, he turned violent without
warning. "He jumped on me and started strangling me," Wadsworth
remembers. "I was totally in shock."
When it was over, Abney had attacked Wadsworth with a
claw-hammer and slit her throat with a steak knife. He then took
Wadsworth's wallet and car keys, leaving her for dead.
"I don't remember being hit, but I had three gashes in my
skull," Wadsworth says. "He probably thought I was dead when he
left."
Beth wasn't dead, however. She managed to call