What is your Love Personality?
It is an obvious fact that we can learn and know what true love
is. What we are often not aware of though, is that there are
different love trends. Does it even matter if we understand love
trends? If we are in a happy relationship, then that means it is
all fine, right? Yes and No. Although, your love with your
partner might run smoothly for a while, it can take a turn we
often never expect. This is why knowing about love trends is
helpful.
What may have turned you or your partner on at first, might not
be a turn on later. How is this possible if they seemed so crazy
over certain things before? The reason is quite simple and
reasonable. When we first get involved with people, the
attraction and lust is so strong (not that it would not be
later), that the way one seduces the other is not truly focused
on, but simply instantly appreciated, since they are so drawn to
one another.
As the relationship proceeds and the bond builds, you will start
getting in touch with your own style of loving and expecting
your partner to match up to it. At times, this will be just the
case. Couples can share the same love trend, but at other times,
they can differ. If your trends do differ, do not look at it as
negative, but as a way to combine them and form a creative love
trend together. It should not be one way or the other. There is
no such thing as the wrong way to love, except for obsession,
controlling and abuse, of course-which is not love anyway,
although some feel it is.
How do you even come about recognizing the love personality of
yours or your partners? It is not difficult, but does require
quite a bit amount of observation. Start by making notes of your
romantic qualities and ideas of what great romance, sex and
seduction is to you. Do you like walks on the beach and dining
at cozy, romantic restaurants? Or do you like setting up your
sexual activities by setting up a scene and playing along with
it, or just going with the flow? By knowing what trend you
follow, you will then be introduced to your romantic identity
and know what you need from your partner.
There are several types of love trends that you should know
about. It will help you come to a deeper understanding of what
type of lover you are and your partner as well. People, whose
personalities follow the emotional trend, are lovers who pay
attention more to the meaning behind things, instead of the
thing itself. A man who does not really care for picnics on the
beach may still love the event due to the intention behind it.
He sees the effort his mate put into it and sees the love and
caring meaning that his mate had when the idea was thought of
and planned. Emotional lovers are sensitive and love sharing
with their partners and are also very spiritual. They do not
hold back from expressing their true feelings.
A Creative trend follower on the other hand, may have some of
the same traits as an emotional lover, but focuses more on
discovering new things and trying them out, taking risks for a
bigger thrill. They love to plan and be a part of interesting
activities with their lovers because they like going through
adventures and new territories together. These types of lovers
are found to be quite exciting because they seem to be more
mysterious and full of surprises and imagination.
Then you have the traditional trend follower, who likes to
follow the rules of what society considers the right way to
handle a relationship. They believe in having one partner,
following the dating and romance guides to the point (bringing a
girl some flowers when picking her up at the door for a date,
just to mention one). They also believe in being organized,
being financially responsible and planning the events that will
take place in their lives with their partners.
Those are the main trends that most people fall into following.
This does not mean that a person who has a certain love trend
cannot carry qualities from other trends, however. It just means
they in general carry that love personality. There is no trend
better than the other either. Each trend is unique and
interesting in it