Giving your Kids a Cellular Child Phone
In today's hectic world, more and more parents are concerned
about their children's safety, and rightly so. Children today
are involved in more and more activities and spend more time at
home alone than any other generation. Many parents are turning
to cell phones as a way to keep in constant touch with their
children.
As cellphone technology becomes more and more advanced and
prices of phones drop further and further, many families are
utilizing shared calling plans and prepaid phones to furnish
their children with cell phones. Most parents feel that children
can be taught to be responsible with the devices, and the peace
of mind that being able to contact your child at any time brings
is more than worth the cost of the monthly billing.
Of course, a certain level of responsibility is necessary before
a child should be given a cell phone. Most parents wait until
their kids are middle school age before considering it, and then
there is a significant learning process before the kids are
turned loose with the phones.
Children must be taught that the phone is a valuable piece of
equipment, like a gameboy or scooter, and must be treated with
respect. This means no "monkey in the middle" or games of catch
with the phone. Additionally, children must learn when it is
appropriate to call for help and when it isn't. Any parent of a
child who has called 911 as a joke or just to see what would
happen will stress the importance of this lesson.
Children must also be taught the proper time and place to use
their cellphones. Most parents will set limits on the amount of
calls to friends that the kids can make during the week. Since
many plans now have free weekend calling, many parents allow
children to call their friends during the free periods. Children
must also be taught that the phones are not to be used during
school hours, unless there is an emergency.
Most middle school aged children can grasp these concepts well,
and the "coolness" factor still associated with having a
cellphone at that age is a great incentive for the kids to
follow the rules.
There are several prepaid cellphone plans available as well, if
you just can't afford to take the chance that your child will
run up an astronomical bill. Several large discount retailers
carry the popular Tracfone on which all time must be prepaid.
The per minute cost is significantly higher than with regular
phones, but if you are providing your child with a cellphone for
emergencies, this shouldn't be a major issue. They are easy to
activate, and the minutes can be replenished via a special
toll-free number or on the internet.
There are also services that allow you to track your child's
activities using Global Positioning Satellites (GPS). These
phones are available through several companies including
MyChildTracker. The service works with regular cellphones and
allows the user to receive a voice message or a dot on a map on
the internet. Although this is an extra monthly fee to pay,
parents of teens have found the service invaluable.
If you are considering a cellphone for your child, make sure to
spend some time teaching him basic cellphone etiquette and
establishing some rules for its use. Not only will the cellphone
give you piece of mind, but you may be able to teach your child
about responsibility at the same time.