Cell Phones for Kids - How Young is Too Young?
Take a random tween, age 8-12, place them in front of a rotary
phone and observe at the blank stare of bewilderment. Yes, gone
are the days of the landline, pushed aside by the next wave of
technological advancement. Mobile phones are fast displacing
landlines in many homes; accompanying this movement is the fact
kids regularly use and know how to use these cell phones. The
mobility of cell phones means you can be anywhere and have the
necessity, or should I say the convenience, of a phone.
Cellular service providers and manufacturers would enjoy nothing
more than exploiting the vastly untapped tween market. However,
is it necessary to provide cell phones to kids age 8-12? What
makes it necessary today? Is the simple the notion of having the
technology enough reason to equip younger and younger customers
with phones? Where do we draw the line when it comes to tweens
owning cell phones, and when should we be restricting
use? The remainder of this article will discuss the pros and
cons of purchasing cell phones for kids. It will discuss the
social aspects, health concerns, and cost issues.
Social and Cost Issues:
Weighing in at a paltry 56 grams, designed with a smaller frame
to accommodate smaller hands, measuring 88 x 44 x 20 mm, one of
the leading cell phones targeted exclusively towards the 8-12
market, the Firefly. It offers up to 2.5 hours of talk time, and
up to 100 hours of standby, basically it's your bare bones cell
phone that permits parent's to limit outgoing calls to certain
numbers and also sports 'mom' and 'dad' buttons for quick
dialling. The Firefly is marketed with such catch phrases as
"Parents of pre-teens understand that it's time to start
loosening the reins and letting their kids travel unsupervised
to school, the library, or friends' houses."
Pro: Yes kids need a safety mechanism and having a cell phone
handy does provide added protection in the form of determining
whereabouts and phoning for help.
Con: Big safe mechanism, however, if any parent purchases a cell
phone for their kid using the catchy marketing ploy directed to
parents, '...start loosening the reins and let their kids travel
unsupervised,' they have the wrong perception regarding the
purpose of a phone. Anybody who believes that providing a cell
phone to a child automatically provides them with responsibility
and ability to take care of themselves, when they were unable to
do so before a cell phone, are relying too heavily on
'parenting by technology'. Be mindful of such reasoning when
thinking about buying a cell phone.
Con: Another item to consider, are we turning our kids into
internet and mobile phone junkies? One should question whether
connecting kids 24/7 to their friends via cell phone will
influence their social habits. Also, cell phones are quickly
becoming the norm and the fashion. Kids will demand to be hip
like their buddies from school who sport the latest cell phone,
or any cell phone for that matter. Parents will be pressed to
give in to ignescent demands of 'everyone else has one', or 'I
want to be cool like the other kids'. Sure it may be good to
have your kid fit in, but since when is school primarily a
popularity contest? Furthermore, when does fitting in cost so
much?! The thing with cell phones is there are monthly costs
attached -- not a one time sunk cost. Chances are you will pay
the monthly fees. Some options are available to have
'pay-as-you-go' options, you pay for whatever minutes you
purchase, however, either or, the more your kid talks on the
phone, the more you pay. Don