Procrastination and JDI!*
Getting better information makes for the more correct decisions.
Yet the fear of 'getting it wrong' sometimes means that we use
collating information and all sorts of other seemingly
completely valid tactics as a good excuse for being slow to
decide.
In a management role procrastination can seriously hold back
progress and demotivate individuals and teams who, full of
innovation and drive to move forward, get frustrated and
confused when action is held up.
There are a number of steps that will help the procrastinating
manager.
Firstly
Recognise it is a good and reasonable defence mechanism, which
relates to the things which might have occurred in the past. A
hurried decision which might have had an unsatisfactory and
upsetting result.
It is part of your character and maybe just a little too strong
a behaviour for those who are around you. It can often be a
great asset if you are surrounded by 'gung-ho' types who just go
for things - there is value in caution and it is all relative!
Secondly
Get Real! Many of the 'Fear' writings, such as 'Feel the Fear
and Do it Anyway' by Susan Jeffers and 'How to Stop
Worrying and Start Living' by Dale Carnegie, extol the
virtues of realistically assessing the potential downsides.
Often, asking yourself 'What is the worst that could
possibly happen here?', gets you able to see how
unlikely your decision is to be life-threatening. So have a
think and be realistic - then do it!
Thirdly
Consider the effects of putting off decisions. How much harm
does it do to the organisation, your nearby people and above all
you, as decisions lie there at the back of your mind, unmade?
The result is most often not the negative outcome that your
worst fears suggest, but the subliminal worry that NOT having
made the decision, i.e. it is still to be worried over, is often
much, much worse when added up than the decision itself!
So, in most cases, a good chunk of information, weigh up the
potential downsides and then, JDI - Just Do It - works a
treat!
As a final example, I once, in my early management days, worked
with a middle manager who became a real challenge, with his
behaviour and attitudes - even I was intimidated by him!
It took me 18 months of fear of confrontation and worry to
tackle him about it - the evidence was never really that strong
- I told myself...
The interview took an hour, during which time he completely
apologised for his behaviour.
He had not realised that the way he was experienced by others
was so damaging. Once pointed out, he accessed feedback
regularly on those days when he was 'off on one', and he
encouraged his supporters to bring him down to earth quickly.
I took 18 months worrying about that conversation.
Looking back, I learnt that it is far better to get these things
aired early on, for everyone. And never once has this backfired
on me since.