Romance, Romance Everywhere!
Has timing always been an issue for you no matter what you try
to do? Maybe you're someone who can be creative, but you're not
sure when would be the perfect time to surprise your husband or
wife. Timing can be crucial depending on the sort of romance you
have in mind with your spouse. Sometimes you must plan romance
while other times you have to always keep a watchful eye out for
the right moment to present itself. You might think you are
blind to those moments or you simply don't have any instinct for
timing, but here are a few ideas to get you started and
hopefully find your own groove.
Guys, when you arrive at home with your wife, you can take this
opportunity to 'sweep her off of her feet'- literally! Have you
ever carried your wife over the threshold of your house? Well,
it's a gesture that never gets old. The timing can be tricky
with this one, though. Don't do it while either of you have a
bag or bags in your hands or while she's on her cell phone.
While the women may feel that this is an appropriate action to
take with their men, it most likely won't work. If you feel you
must give it a try, more power to you!
Create a home that is your romantic getaway location for both of
you. Always keep a number of items that you can use in order to
transform your home into a romantic hideaway. Keep a box filled
with romantic scented candles, music, flowers and wine and keep
some sensuous foods in the kitchen at all times. These can
include strawberries, grapes, whipped cream and anything else
that sparks your imagination.
When one spouse leaves a trail of clothes from the door all the
way to the bedroom where they are waiting, it is always
acceptable and a hit! You can also use a different version of
this classic by leaving a trail of lit candles that lead to the
bedroom. As always, the brightest burning flame should be that
of the person waiting in the bedroom. Don't be surprised if your
spouse's flame matches yours by the time he or she reaches the
bedroom!
For romantic moments at the workplace, simply take the time at
work to stop, call your spouse and tell them that you love them.
Copy your face or a part of you body on the copy machine and
send it to him or her with a funny or suggestive note. Send him
or her flowers at the office or to the restaurant where he or
she is having lunch. Mail him or her your contact information on
a Rolodex card with a memo saying, "Love Source. Call when
lonely or horny."
Finally, make sure you check his or her schedule ahead of time
before attempting this next move. Pack a pillow and a blanket in
a picnic basket and go to his or her office during the lunch
hour. Tell his or her secretary to hold all calls, lock the
office door and turn off every source of outside communication.
Make love on the desk. It will most likely be some of the best
sex you both have had in a long time and could become a habit!