Wedding Planning - Do It Yourself...
It can be tempting to avoid the whole wedding planning fiasco by
hiring a professional, but these individuals do not come
cheaply, so taking charge yourself can be an excellent way to
save a great deal of cash. Wedding planning is an art and a lot
harder than it looks, so don't underestimate the time and effort
that you will need to put into even the most basic of weddings.
Wedding Planning - The Basics
The basics of wedding planning is to be organized and thorough;
it is well worth having at least one extra person to help you
with the arrangements, two heads are most certainly better than
one when it comes to wedding planning.
A great way to start is to make a list of the dates and items
that simply cannot change, for example the venue or the key
guests. This is fundamental, as all other aspects can be altered
and planned around the key items.
Secondly, when it comes to wedding planning, it is important to
decide on the 'feel' that you want for your wedding. For
example, do you want your wedding to have a relaxed or informal
theme? Is there a common hobby or activity that you can draw on
as an underlying idea for your wedding? For instance, do the
bride and groom both love dogs or do they both enjoy water
sports? A very simple lead can be just enough to get you started!
Wedding Planning - Behaving Like a Professional
Wedding planning professionals are generally individuals who are
full of ideas, are organized and can get the most out of
providers. Whilst a professional may have many ideas at their
fingertips you will have to look around and think carefully
about what you are hoping to achieve. Why not get ideas by
asking friends and relatives what they have seen in recent
weddings that worked particularly well (or indeed did not work
at all), so that you can take the best ideas and ditch the worst!
Stay organized. Keep accurate records of everything that you see
and do. Go overboard with your records as, at some point, you
are almost certainly going to be in the position of not being
able to remember where you saw that special item!
When it comes to wedding planning, communication is key. Make
sure that all providers are fully aware of what you expect, when
you expect it and what you expect to pay. Get everything in
writing and ensure that you tell everyone if there is any change
(no matter how small it may appear).
Be professional, be realistic and keep the suppliers informed;
believe you me it will really help to ensure that everything
runs smoothly.