Swinging! Will my spouse be interested?

How does one talk his/her spouse into living the Swinging Lifestyle? More importantly, why would you want to? Understanding that you desire to experience erotic, sexual encounters with others is quite apparent but as a couple both of you must desire the same. Talking your spouse into sharing themselves as well as his/her soul mate with others sexually is not the same as talking them into pizza over chicken for dinner or a comedy over a drama flick for entertainment. Casually bring up the subject of swinging to test the waters. If a positive response is given, continue the conversation sharing your desires and why you feel the lifestyle is something that you both can enjoy together. If you receive a negative response, do not push the issue. A pessimistic conversation could end in confrontation and hurt feelings. Simply drop the subject and reinitiate it another time. Be prepared to communicate informed. Don