Stress Reduction - 30 Easy Things That You Can Do
Stress affects the whole person - body, mind, feelings, and
behavior, and just as symptoms can take many forms, so there are
many simple actions that you can take to relieve these symptoms.
Take Action on Stress. Ask yourself "Am I stressed, or am I in
denial?" Simply making a conscious decision to act upon your
situation will bring to you, such a sense of relief that this
unpleasant situation is going to change, that you will
immediately start to feel some benefit. Chunk Down. Chunking
down helps you to define what the problems actually are. It
helps you to divide the problems causing you stress into smaller
and therefore more manageable parts. You can then look for
solutions, options and ways forward. This is a good problem
solving technique.
Speak to Someone. A problem shared is a problem halved, it's
good to talk. Talking it over with a friend or someone who is
willing to listen, who wont judge or offer advice, can often
help to de-clutter the mind and clarify your perspective and
help you to take appropriate action to relieve stress.
Write it down - Let it out. Write a letter to yourself or to
someone else, without posting it, but find a means of getting
your true thoughts and feelings down on paper. You can then
destroy it if you wish, it's a form of release, which you can
then follow up with a plan to resolve your issues.
Ask for Professional Help. Seek out a hypnotherapy DVD or find a
hypnotherapist to help you refocus on relaxation and stress
relief.
Stop Procrastinating. Procrastination is itself a cause of
stress, Eliminate procrastination from your life. Don't put
things off until tomorrow. Do them today. Create a "DO IT NOW"
mentality.
Don't be afraid to say NO. Change the Dynamic of your situation.
If you can learn how to be more assertive, this will enable you
to say what you think and act how you want to. Imagine how much
less stressed this will make you feel.
Give yourself choices. Change the stress factors that you can
and strengthen your ability to cope with ones that you cannot
change. Be creative, find compromises, Reframe problems and look
for solutions that create win-win outcomes.
Take a step back from the situation. Create some distance
between yourself and the stressor. Walk away and find a quiet
place even if that's sitting in your car or a bathroom. Take a
couple of deeper breaths and imagine yourself far, far away from
it. See the stressor for what it really is. See it small and
manageable compared to the bigger picture and see how much
calmer you feel.
Manage your Time - Be Organized. Time management allows you to
plan and organize your life to give yourself more space and
opportunity. It involves planning, delegating, setting an agenda
and not wasting any time doing unnecessary things or worrying
about things over which you have no control.
Start the day with confidence. Prepare for the coming day, the
night before. Then you're not rushed in the morning and off to a
bad start straight away.
Don't rely on your memory (it's the first thing to go when
you're stressed). Write down appointments, to-do lists,
directions and shopping lists. Create order out of chaos. Don't
be late. Give yourself more time to do things so that you are
not pressured. Get up a little earlier, leave a little earlier
for appointments.
Focus. Do one thing at a time and do it well, focus on the job
at hand and forget everything else you have to do.
Take a moment. Allow yourself some personal time, everyday, a
private moment for peace, quiet and contemplation.
Have an optimistic view of the world. Expect things to go right,
expect people to be nice. You may find that's exactly what
happens!
Learn to be Tolerant. Remember that most people are doing the
best that they can. Find it within yourself to be tolerant and
understanding. People make mistakes. Accept the fact that we
live in an imperfect world.
Take Regular Exercise. Exercise combats many of the physical and
emotional symptoms of stress and can make you feel better about
yourself. Feeling healthy can bring about improvements in
self-esteem and self-image and increase confidence. When our
confidence and esteem are lifted our perception of ourselves
changes completely and becomes much more positive.
Make exercise Fun. Don't ignore the mental and emotional aspect
of regular exercise. Giving yourself time out to do something
fun simply makes you feel good, so if you're feeling stressed
and unsure about whether to exercise or not, simply remind
yourself of how you are going to feel afterwards.
Get Outside and Walk it off, - Breathe in some Fresh Air. If you
work in an office with air conditioning, get outside and clear
your head. Walk about and Fill your lungs with Air. Try some
Deep Breathing Techniques, which re-energizes and invigorates
your mind and body. This simple exercise also releases hormones
that affect your mood, creating a more relaxed and positive
frame of mind and releasing physical stress from the body.
Treat yourself - Have something to look forward to. Get away
from it all, even if it's just for one day. Better still, have
regular weekend breaks and don't ever take work with you. Make
sure that you book a proper holiday each year to recharge your
batteries, it doesn't matter where, just do it.
Learn to use your body's Relaxation Response. Imagine... having
relief on tap - something you could experience whenever you need
it, something that would remove all the stress from your body
and return the sparkle to your mind.
You can use hypnosis to trigger this wonderful natural effect,
which will release hormones and neurotransmitters that flood
your body and mind with pure, cleansing relaxation. You owe it
to yourself to feel the relief you can have instantly, so learn
this technique. Make Relaxation part of your daily routine. The
following practices will help you to relax and unwind.
- Guided relaxation and visualization techniques: obtain a CD or
DVD
- Meditation: Brings an abundance of calm into your life
- Progressive Muscle Relaxation: deeply, physically relaxing
- Massage/ Aromatherapy: Go on, pamper yourself
- Yoga; a mixture of meditation and gentle movement and
stretching
- Shiatsu; Energy balancing and deeply relaxing
Other methods and therapies include; Floatation tanks, Reiki,
Indian head massage, Thai Chi and Reflexology. Do your research
and try a few things and find the treatment most suitable for
you.
Eat Properly - Food is not just fuel. Make the time in your
schedule to eat properly and take time to enjoy your meals when
you do eat them. Don't just shovel the food in and dash off for
the next meeting, give your digestive system a fighting chance
by eating slowly and resting after your meal.
(Remember, peptic ulcers aren't fun).
Eat Healthy. Look after your health by eating a sensible
balanced diet. Eat breakfast to kick-start your day. If you need
to, create new good eating habits. Ensure that your lifestyle
changes to suit your real needs. Poor nutrition will further
weaken your resistance to illness and allow other symptoms of
stress to develop.
Lay off the coffee and tea. (the caffeine doesn't help you to
relax)
Take a hot bath. Have a good soak in the evening to relieve the
tension in your body before going to bed
Ensure that you get enough sleep. This is essential. You'll wake
up feeling refreshed with more energy and able to function
better throughout the day.
Enjoy the moments. Find something that makes you smile or laugh
out loud. Laughter is the answer to stress, because it's hard to
be stressed and anxious when you're having fun!
Remember to Enjoy Life. Every day, take time to do something
that you enjoy.
Learn to live one day at a time and take each day as you find
it. Life only comes round once, it's quite short and you have to
appreciate what's good in it.