The Best Weight Loss Program
Copyright 2006 Donovan Baldwin
WHAT THE BEST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM IS NOT.
The best weight loss program is NOT about diets, diet pills, fad
diets, or even dieting. While it involves physical
activity...we're all adults here, I'll use the
word..exercise...it is NOT about pushing your physical limits,
embarrassing yourself in front of the neighbors, joining an
expensive gym, or hiring a personal trainer. It is NOT about
joining a cult, avoiding friends, alienating your family, eating
only disgusting, uappealing and unappetizing foods or feeling
guilty and depressed. Most of all, it should NEVER be about
BEING ALONE in your struggle.
WHAT THE BEST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM IS!
In it's simplest form, the best weight loss program is the one
you will stick with. Let's modify that a little and say that it
is a healthy, doable, rational, flexible program you will stick
with...that works!
THE BASIC FACTS ABOUT DIETING AND WEIGHT LOSS!
Diets don't work. Yep! That simple. Oh, if you want to drop 5 or
10 lbs to look good at your sister's wedding, a quick diet might
be okay. But if you truly have a weight problem, as over 50% of
Americans do, it is a lifelong condition and requires lifelong
measures. However, don't consider yourself doomed to a life
without pleasure or happiness, and don't give up. Go back and
read the first paragraph, and realize that there are things that
CAN be done, and YOU CAN DO THEM. In the meantime however, let
me just cover a few facts. Quick and dirty. You can scan through
them and just get the basics. This article is not going to be
big enough, nor intimidating enough, to include everything.
WHY DIETS DON'T WORK.
Diets don't work for a lot of reasons, physical and mental, but
I don't have enough space here to cover all of them. If you
would like to read more on this, I have a webpage at
http://nodiet4me.net/10reasons.html that gives 10 reasons why
diets don't work, and those aren't the only reasons, either. The
main reason a diet will not work is that your body has some
really effective self-regulating mechanisms. If you deprive it
of it's expected calorie intake over a period of time, it will
adjust itself to need less calories. Although you will be eating
less (and definitely not enjoying it), your body will settle
into a new pattern and your weight will level off with only a
small weight loss. Even worse, when you stop dieting, as you
know you will, the body will keep its new level of calorie need
while you return to your old eating habits. This brings us to
another point.
THE BASIC LAW OF WEIGHT LOSS AND WEIGHT GAIN.
Everybody's body works to it's own rhythm and needs, but they
all follow the same law. If you take in more calories than your
body needs, it will store the excess as fat. Bottom line. Fact.
End of discussion...almost. Using the information in the
paragraph above, you can see that when you quit your diet and go
back to eating the old way after your body has adjusted its
needs downward, you now have MORE EXCESS CALORIES TO BE STORED
AS FAT! This is why people often GAIN WEIGHT after a diet...or
series of diets.
SO WHAT IS THE BEST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM?
As you can see, you are back at the beginning of this
discussion, but with a little more information. We can still say
that the best weight loss program is the one you will stick
with, and now you know a little more about why. Since we are all
different, the obvious fact should be that what you need to find
is not THE best weight loss program, but YOUR best weight loss
program...the one YOU will stick with. The biq question in your
mind is...
HOW DO YOU FIND "YOUR" BEST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM?
There are a lot of things you can do to improve your health,
your life, and your personal weight situation, such as drink
more water, get plenty of sleep, do things that you enjoy, for
example. These can all contribute to weight loss, but let's just
look at two things for now.
1. Become more active: Notice, I avoided saying, "exercise".
Whoops! I said it. Look, exercise equals activity. If you want
to do Richard Simmons' tapes and "Sweat to the Oldies", more
power to you. If you choose to buy a Bowflex and in a few months
look like the grandmother in their TV commercials, that's great!
Odds are however, you just need to make some lifestyle
adjustments and become more aware of the opportunities that
exist to "exercise" in daily life. Oh sure, a planned and
scheduled exercise program is great, but so is a walk, or
gardening, or swimming, or cleaning house, or...well, you get
the idea. The only need is to make it regular,at least 4 or 5
times a week, and to make it challenging.
Only you can assess what is challenging. What is challenging
today may simply be walking out to the mailbox and back. One
lady started her "exercise program" with that simple step (no
pun intended). Another gentleman started his program by walking
to the end of his block. That first day, he thought he wouldn't
even be able to get back to his house. A few weeks later, he was
walking over a mile. At one point in my life, I regularly ran
over 6 miles at a time. However, the first time I ever tried to
run, I didn't make it half a block. The key is to get started,
do it regularly, and challenge yourself.
Becoming more active not only burns calories during the activity
(remember, the more calories burned the less fat stored), but
continuing the activity over time (you were going to do it
regularly) causes your body to shift to a new level where it
automatically burns more calories than it used to. The facts
behind this are not complicated but require a lot more space
than we have here, and I did say I was going to keep to the
basics.
People drop out of "exercise programs" for a lot of reasons. For
your purposes, do the activity as it fits in your schedule, pick
the activity that pleases you, and vary the activity...if you
cleaned house yesterday, take a walk today. By the way, if I
told you to exercise, to take a walk, you might begin that
avoidance process that makes people drop out of formal, planned
exercise programs. Why don't you take the grandkids to the zoo
instead? If that isn't a workout, I don't know what is. Be
creative. It's your "exercise program", make it what you want it
to be.
2. Eat sensibly: You know how you SHOULD be eating, right! Back
to basics. Lots of vegetables, cut down on portion sizes, have
an apple instead of pie or a candy bar. Take the sugar out of
your life. There are all kinds of diet tips running around. Not
a single one of them is worth a hill of beans...but a bunch of
them add up to a lot more than a hill of beans. Changing only
one thing is probably not going to make a big difference,
but...IT DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE! changing seventeen things might
make quite a difference, but there's a secret...
Don't try to make all seventeen, or twelve, or thirty changes
all at once. Start with one change, and once it is part of your
life, make the next one. You might want to learn a little bit
about Kaizen. Small steps in the nutrition area will help get
you where you want to go eventually, just as taking that small
walk out to the mailbox may someday lead to walking one or two
miles at a time.
HOW LONG DO I HAVE TO STAY ON THIS WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM?
Well, for the rest of your life. That's why it is important to
choose activities you enjoy and learn to make better nutrition
choices while still enjoying the pleasure of eating. Also, many
people have weight loss problems because they have personal
issues with life. Your personal weight loss program, regular
activity plus nutritional common sense, equals a sense of
control over a situation that produces many negative affects in
your life. A sense of control over that situation allows you to
remove many of those negative affects and move on to rearrange
other parts of your life that may need attention.
One last point. I have kept this as simple as possible, but it
is based on a large body of information. If you truly want to
create the most effective weight loss program for you, you will
have to learn a lot more than you probably know now. The public
library is a good place to start, as is the internet.