The Unadulterated Truth About Getting In Shape!
I bet with the new year here many of you are considering working
off the Christmas indulgence with a new gym membership, a flashy
piece of home gym equipment, or purchasing some gadget of
another.
Essentially the hunt will be on for that miracle cure that will
undo (possibly) months of excess in just a few weeks. And you
know what?
More power to you!
At least you are taking action. Many won't even get that far.
However what happens when external appeal wears off? Because,
more often than not, that is what drives the "new you" approach.
Once the novelty wears off the new membership, bit of fitness
kit, or whatever it may be, you are left back at the starting
point.
I see this SO often and have concluded that, very often, the
reason that underlies the failing of these short-lived sporadic
attempts at physical betterment is one of looking for motivation
in the wrong place.
To be more specific, placing external items on a pedestal and
then getting bored with their appeal and quitting physical
training.
A list of excuses often accompanies such decisions to quit but
the real reason is that their motivation did not come from
within, fortified with a cast-iron promise to themselves to make
it a lifestyle change.
No! Instead it came about due to them seeing expensive gym kit,
or them seeing a celebrity using the latest 'wonder' gadget,
assuring them it will provide a six- pack!
Be willing to train regardless of whether you have equipment or
not and definitely without thought for what others will think of
you.
If you have made a genuine decision to train then you should not
require external motivation of peers, equipment, or anyone/thing
else!
Your motivation should be derived from within and should become
a part of you. Each day take time to visualise and see yourself
as you want to become. See yourself enjoying the physical
challenge. Use your mind to guide you towards your target then
take physical action.
If you need a friend to train with you in order for you even to
turn up for a session, you need to reassess your reasons.
If it is for something profound and life-changing (like better
health) then take a grip of your mental tenacity and do it
YOURSELF.
Ultimately people will come to admire and respect your tenacity
(stick-to-it-ness!) and, more than likely, you will
(unwittingly) be seen as a role model to those around you!
(c) Tim Webb 2006