Little Known Stress Management Tips & Techniques: How To Relax
More & Worry Less
What is Stress?
To understand the need for stress management, we must first
understand stress. When a person is in danger, the body reacts,
preparing to defend itself. The heart rate increases, blood
pressure climbs higher, breathing becomes faster and blood flows
to the muscles. This is great if a fierce dog is chasing you,
because it gives you additional energy to get out of harm's way.
Unfortunately, the body reacts in the same way in response to
daily problems and changes and over time this causes issues.
Your body is ready to flee, but you don't need an extra spurt of
speed. With no way to release this additional energy, you become
nervous, anxious and worried. This is called stress.
Physical issues such as an illness, lack of sleep or eating
poorly can cause stress. Stress can also be caused by mental
pressures like worrying about work or a death in the family.
Major life changes can also cause stress. Not only negative
changes such as being laid off from a job, but changes that are
considered positive as well, such as a marriage or a promotion
at work can result in stress.
What Problems are Associated with Stress?
Stress management can help with the physical effects of stress.
Stress can cause a number of health problems and can make
existing problems worse. Fatigue, back pain, depression, high
blood pressure, insomnia, headaches and constipation are just
some of the signs of stress.
Stress Management Techniques
Stress management is the process of dealing with stress and
lessening its negative effects.
To effectively deal with stress, it is necessary to sense when
you are feeling stress. Next, you must determine what is causing
the stress. This will be different for each individual. For
example, one person might consider the daily commute a great
time to wind down from work and listen to relaxing music in the
car, while another finds the rush hour traffic incredibly
stressful.
Once you have recognized the cause of the stress, see if you can
get away from it or avoid it completely. If that is not
possible, consider ways to lessen your exposure to the stressor.
For example, can you spend less time engaging in a stressful
activity? Can you limit the activity to certain days?
Think about your emotional reaction to stress. Do you try to
perform every task perfectly? Are you trying to keep everyone
happy? These attitudes are bound to cause stress when you fail
to live up to your own expectations. In the name of stress
management, take it easier on yourself, ask for help if you need
it and recognize that no one is perfect.
Exercising regularly is a great stress management technique. The
physical activity releases pent-up energy and distracts you from
your anxiety, helping you to relax.
Other Stress Management Tips
- Get plenty of sleep every night
- Get away from stressful situations by participating in hobbies
and other activities you enjoy
- Prepare well in advance for stressful events
- Meditate or use deep breathing exercises
- Eat healthy, nutritious meals and limit the amount of alcohol
and caffeine you consume
- Manage time wisely and don't take on more than you can handle
- Ask for help if you need it
- Learn conflict resolution skills and use them