Why Attractive Women Are So Cold To Men...Or Are They?
You're walking down the street somewhere, or shopping at a mall,
or sitting at a restaurant or bar, and then you see her. That
beautiful woman you've had your eye on since who knows when. You
feel your heart racing, your pulse pick up, your eyes beginning
to widen. You approach her and attempt to say something witty,
but you become tongue-tied. Eventually, you find the words to
say and gush over her appearance, telling her how beautiful she
is, how you would like to get to know her, etc. She gives you a
half-interested look, says thank you, and politely brushes you
off. You may wonder to yourself, why did she just blow me off so
rudely like that?
For most attractive women, this scenario is a common occurence.
Men continually come on them every day, even when they are not
consciously doing so. Most people in our society have been
conditioned since birth that attractive people are special and
deserve to be treated differently from your average person.
Therefore, men usually attempt to go out of their way to attract
beautiful women in extravagant ways, like buying flashy clothes,
jewellery, fancy cars, or other expensive gadgets, or they spend
hours in the gym working on their bodies so they can attract
that really gorgeous female. For some of these men, it may
initially attract these women, but the women later become
disenchanted with these antics and usually end up dumping these
same men.
So why do beautiful women act so rude to most men? And is there
any chance for an average-looking guy to go out with a
stunningly beautiful woman?
In reality, most beautiful women are not rude or bitchy by
nature; it's just that their beauty tends to attract more people
to them on a daily basis. When a beautiful woman travels
somewhere, whether it's going to work, or the coffee shop, the
supermarket, or at the bar, she is constantly approached by
eager males, and most of these men always want something from
her, most often a phone number or date. Even men who are not
actively attempting to hit on her tend to act differently in
front of her and offer her more attention than usual or give
special favors to her. Well, she doesn't have enough time in the
day to go out with all of these men, regardless of how nice they
are to her, so she has to develop some way of screening them
out. Therefore, she acts out by putting up a protective mental
shield, which is a way for her to discard all of the men she is
not attracted to and seek out those men who she feels have some
more interesting to offer her.
Now you may be wondering, I'm not rich or look like a rock star
or professional athlete, so how can I hook up with a really
gorgeous woman like that?
Well, in your eyes, this woman my be incredibly attractive.
However, even the most beautiful woman has insecurities and
worries about how she looks. You may feel yourself trying not to
stare at her butt as she walks down the street in her shapely
dress or blue jeans, but she may worry that she is too fat or is
gaining too much cellulite in her thighs. Or she my believe that
she is too flabby in her waist. She may have female friends who
think that she eats too much ice cream or comments on how her
hair is too greasy or frizzy, or that she breaks out with
pimples too often. She may have family members who talk about
how she has dragon breath in the morning or makes monkey sounds
when she laughs.
So if you want to approach a really beautiful woman and have a
conversation with her, and you find yourself getting nervous
when you try to say something, just remember that she is human
like you are and has her not-so-pretty moments. Instead of
gushing over her beauty, trying to say something corny or using
a bad pick up line, think of how she may look with food in her
teeth, or slipping on the sidewalk, on sitting on the toilet, or
some other embarassing or mundane situation as you approach her,
and you will feel yourself becoming much less nervous around
her. You can then say "hi" to her, but DON'T compliment her on
her looks before you go into an extended conversation.
You're probably wondering, why would I not compliment her on her
looks or tell her how beautiful she is? Well, because she is
always being complimented by other men about her beauty every
day!
If you approach her like a regular person and not a desperate
guy trying to go out with her, she will notice that you are not
like the other men she sees. She will then wonder why you didn't
tell her how pretty she is, and this will stoke up her
insecurities. And ususally when this happens, she will approach
YOU and attempt to win your approval of her. This will surely
help to build up your confidence, and before you know it, she
will be asking you for a date or your phone number.