Becoming the Alpha Male: How to Light Up a Room with Your
Confidence
When you enter a room, you need to be aware of the kind of
entrance that you make.
You can't just slink submissively into the room. On the other
hand, you can't assault everyone's senses and announce that you
have arrived.
Neither of those will do.
When you enter a room, you need to walk in confidently, with
either a smile (if you're looking at someone), or just a hint of
one - just to let everyone know that you're happy and
comfortable.
Walk in. Don't run.
Don't explode into the room. Walk in.
Ease your way casually into the room - your speed should be
somewhat slow and relaxed.
Keep your head up, back straight and keep your shoulders back.
You want to be standing at your full height (most girls prefer
men who are taller than they are). Whatever you do, don't stick
your nose up in the air, don't pose, and don't look rigid or
mechanical. Practice this in front of a mirror if you have to.
You want to be fluid and confident.
Standing up straight is a major sign of confidence, and women
definitely respond to, and take notice of this.
Walk into the room like you have a purpose - like you know why
you're here and what you're doing.
Stop or hesitate for a brief second at the door and scan the
crowd for people that you know. If you see someone you know,
walk towards them purposefully, giving them a big smile and
start talking to them. If you aren't sure how to start a
conversation, look at a site like http://conversat
ion-starters.blogspot.com, or http://www.conversation
-master.com for more dating specific conversation ideas.
If you don't see anyone you know, single someone out and walk
over to them with a big smile and introduce yourself to them -
act friendly, as if you've known them all your life and begin a
conversation with them. Then work the room.